i am 5ft 8 1/2 inches 150 lbs. I have streatch marks and have had 2 cesearians.so i have a scar. I have no rolls. and if to judge me by my face, I know i am not ugly. But, Im 33 now, ..am I gross to men?? I know I m not rolly polly or even chubby but will a man find me sexually attractive??? NOT for my personality-- but i want him to look at me and want me. Will that ever happen again?
2006-10-14 20:44:22 · 19 answers · asked by loladoreen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I want to know form a man.. am I attractive? Is it disgusting ot have stretch marks,c section scar? and loose skin. Im not fat. at all i run every day. But I am not petite or big.
2006-10-14 20:47:30 · update #1
Work on your sex appeal. You should not be so self conscious. I have dated two females who were chubby, about same built. But the recent one had amazing sex appeal. she didn't care what people thought about her, in bed she was very comfortable with her body, while the other was a little self conscious. Just like how you women find confidence in men to be attractive. Its the same for us (well for me at least). If your looking to settle down, just be comfortable with him, express your sexuality, bring out that tiger in you. grrrrrr...
2006-10-14 21:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by jack black 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you allow your idea of attractiveness to men be defined by the fact you have stretch marks & scars from childbirth? Those are your medals of honor! You worked hard for those. If a man looks at you and doesn't want you because of that - he doesn't deserve you - he's too shallow! Why would you even consider being with someone who thinks like that?!
My concern for you is that TRUE BEAUTY comes from within and if you have such a negative image of yourself that is how others will see you as well. You must first see yourself for the beautiful person you are - streatch marks, scars and all - and your self-esteem will make you a much more attractive, desirable person.
2006-10-14 20:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sad even addressing this question. You don't need a man, you need a mirror. You're beautiful no matter what anyone else says. From personal experience, men don't seem to really care about that stuff when they actually get to know you a bit, and most of them don't notice a fraction of the imperfections that we see in ourselves. There is no advice to be offered here, just some words of encouragement, Women every where need to set the bar higher when it comes to self love, your worth it, don't let one roll or wrinkle take from the great person you are.
2006-10-14 20:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you say KOBE is new. He has been playing for 10 years. his carreer average is 23 a game. Jordan's is 30 a game. for Kobe to beat that, he must play for 10 more years and average 37 a game. Not going to happen. Kobe won with SHAQ. Jordan, had a shooting FOrward, Pippen, then average players. The centers Lakers have now, were better then the ones Jordan had. dont forget, MJ retired and came back when he was in his late 30's. and then average 22 or so.
but he wasnt trying to score, he was teaching the wizards.
2006-10-15 02:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men like different things and by the sounds of things you're attractive and should have no problem finding several men to show interest!
Be confident, smile and hold you head up high and proud!
2006-10-14 20:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Andromeda Newton™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find someone who loves you for the real you it won't matter how many stretch marks, scars, fat cells you have. You could have horns on the top of your head. Find someone who will love you for who you are inside and all the outside stuff really won't matter.
2006-10-14 20:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Savez Agir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so hard on tour self . what do you want to look like you were when you were 19 again . you have preformed 2 miricales you have bough life into this world . i can't (i a guy ) be proud hold your head up high you are a mother and that makes you pretty no matter what you look like kevin
2006-10-14 20:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gf....yes is will happen. When the time is right. Get to know someone first and take it from there. If the guy is truely in love with you, he won't care about such things and you will be beautiful to him.
2006-10-14 20:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
to me you sound just fine, it's whats inside your body that matters most. and this is for you.....
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-14 20:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes! It will happen. But not without your nice personality.Be patient and be sure he is Mr. Right
2006-10-14 20:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋