the reason i dont want to be friends with her is because she acts so fake. the first time i met her she was all cool but then as the year went by she started actin like some people weren't worth her time. then she started actin white and now black. i dont know if she is confused or if she just tryin to fit in with all the possible crowds. Do i have a right to be mad about this? answer both questions.
2006-10-14 20:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh yeah i have told her already that she does that. should i tell her in a letter?
2006-10-14 20:48:41 · update #1
Don't tell her anything just stop doing things with her. She'll eventually get the message. Fake people aren't worth being around.
2006-10-14 20:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to point out the things that you dislike in her, be honest, but in a nice way, try to understand her, maybe she's just doing this cause she's unsecure. I don't think ignoring her is a good idea, she will feel confused and she won't understand anything (you know the case when your friends start acting weird and ignoring you and you don't even know why?) if she does not get the nice way, then stop being friends with her
2006-10-14 20:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by viziata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay umm why dont you talk to her and tell her all that stuff you just wrote and maybe that would make her realize what she is doing and if it doesnt work and you insist on not being friends with her you should just say, "im sorry but i cant hang out with you anymore you are just so fake sorry."
2006-10-14 20:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by maxi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just keep away from her. She might pick up on it & ask what's going on & that's when you say that you don't want to hang out with someone who is being fake. Being a teenager is tough but it doesn't mean you shouldn't be true to yourself because you will never please everyone so you should just use that energy on pleasing yourself.
2006-10-14 20:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a person that wants to fit into all crowds, you do have the right to be mad, you could still be her freind but hang out w/ her that much.
2006-10-14 20:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by CAMELS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a right, but it shouldn't stop you being friends, you should just talk to her about it, tell her.. maybe theres a reason she does it. .like you say to fit in.. explain she doesn't need to etc.. Hope it works. Good Luck! XX :D
2006-10-14 20:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jemma P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her straight in the face that you don't want to be friends with her anymore, or you can just keep a distance from her, gradually of course...
(a piece of advice, no offence, you might want to add a "thanks" at the end of your question or you can say "please answer both question", it sounds more polite when asking for advice...the current ending tone you wrote sound like an order, a command)
2006-10-14 20:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull her fake, stank weave out and fart in her iced tea.... then take her cell phone and pick off all of the blingy stickers that she has on there... then kick her poodle (i've always hated that little dog)... then simply tell her to get off and that you don't want nuttin to do with her fake a55
2006-10-14 20:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by i like fried chicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight to the point. dont let the relation be in the gray area. its either black or white. be frank with yourself first, know what you exactly want... be precise firm, and tell her the truth.
2006-10-14 21:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by alien0n05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah fake people are so annoying! don't tell you dont want to be friends, just stop hanging out with her.
2006-10-14 20:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋