what does he mean by this? how do i be more fun?
2006-10-14 20:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would say go out and do something different be sponatous and adventurous... you should plan out a really cool and fun date like a theme park or a concert or going to an arcade then after the date go back to his places and have sex somewhere you have never had sex b4 like in the kitchen or bathroom after that kiss him and tell him you love him and go home dont spend the night this will leave him thinking about u the whole night and he will diffently think ur not boring
2006-10-14 20:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I have said something along those lines before to my bf, I was starting to get attracted to another guy and I suppose in a way I wanted him to be super interesting so i can forget about the other guy. My situation differs from urs as in im in a long distance but serious relationship,You certainly need to have a talk with him gal. You could also try new things like if you are already intimate with him sexually, spice up ur sex life. You could do sweet little suprises like mail him sweet notes or make his fav breakfast..etc but yes,I vote for talking...Talking is the way to go, try and find out the reason why and how he would like you to change.
2006-10-15 03:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by i_am_not_me88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not knowing your age is difficult to tell you what this means but if you are under 19 this usually means that he has other interests, and is to your benefit not to keep wasting your time with him. If you are under 30 above 19 all it means is that you have mature and your interest are in success of your life and that of your parter together and might want to find out what exactly does he mean ask him for examples and determine the validity of his claim, if there is no validity thank him for wasting your valuable time and you will defenetly find someone better. If you are above 30 send him to hell he was just out for a good time and now that the ride is over and got serious he wants to bail out. Good luck!
2006-10-15 03:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by wiseornotyoudecide 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means the bloom of the initial romance is gone and now it's time to see if the relationship is deeper than your boyfriend finding you "fun". If he wants fun - he can go to the amusement park. But you guys need to do some more talking.
2006-10-15 03:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u r changed as the time passed,find out that change in u.think over that few things which he used to like the most,which r not there in u now !
talk to urself,i m sure ul find the answer y he is sayin so.
and dnt take him for granted this can be a serious thing,talk to him that how u r boring or u have changed,what he wants.
all the best,hope i helped u.
2006-10-15 03:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by sakshi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! you are not putting out! This is a very honorable trait. I wish all the luck in the world upon you and tell this shallow dork to take a hike.
2006-10-15 03:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by ripperdear6766 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships get boring when theres nothin new goin on... i vote for a breakup- but that's just cause i don't like relationships. being single is awesome!
2006-10-15 03:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by hex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about how much has changed , then you tell him how fun he used to be .
2006-10-15 03:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and go out with someone else he probably was upset he couldn't get into your pants.
2006-10-15 03:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by green_irishmen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find new one, and still no warranty how long you are going to be funny.
2006-10-15 03:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋