im in love with this guy and he says he likes me but he says im annoying sometimes and that im too clingy. what is that suppose to mean? he says he wants an independent girl. what does he mean by this?
2006-10-14 19:59:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont take it personal he just means he wants you to have your own life... he wants to have time to miss you.. so try not calling him all the time or go visit him all the time go out with your friends be busy or unavailable at times have your own life and goals try a new hobby hang out with ur family and friends more often... just do your own thing when he asks you to come over tell him you cant make it this time but mayb next time
2006-10-14 20:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like LOVE to me! Being clingy means that someone or something HANGS ON too much! Being independent means to rely on yourself instead of him, I guess.
As I said, it doesn't sound like Love. To some degree, wifes/husbands, boyfriend/girlfriends, have to b independent somewhat. Think it over. Maybe it's time for some new guy!
2006-10-15 03:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this wrong please, When he says your clingy it means he wants space. Maybe let him rest for a few days. He doesn't want you hanging around him as much. Is he making decisions for you? He wants you to make moves maybe? But in my case I would break up w/ him, if he doesn't want to be around you then he doesn't feel the same way you do. But remember I am not you.
2006-10-15 03:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means he want you to have a life of your own. He doesnt want to be your center of attention all the time because he knows that he wont be like that for you. He wants you to still have friends and hang out with them, maybe not as much as you do, but defientetly hang out with them.
2006-10-15 03:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have to change your attitude first..
2006-10-15 03:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ah Fye . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋