Why do I feel so unloved?

Question

everybody else in my middle school has a bf/gf but not me

I hate life

Answer 1

You're young, that's okay... take this time to develop yourself - read and explorer as much as you can. Right now, you may not be getting what you "think" you need but later on you'll find plenty of people will seek your affections.

Life is a funny thing. Not funny ha ha, but funny ironic. More than likely, your middle school friends may not grow above their current personality level and high school may be their greatest accomplishment. For the rest of the people, middle and high school are just a short stop to our ultimate accomplishments...

Don't worry to much about the middle school luv scene... it's over rated. But, if you do find someone that shares common interests, by all means, hang out and explore. But, keep it clean and innocent - your too young to start fooling around with affairs of the heart. That will come later... and, it's best when you're more prepared to handle it - which usually occurs in your late teens to early 20's.

Take care, enjoy life, and, I'm sure there are a few people that really care for you... remember to love yourself first and don't ever do things to gain acceptance.

Answer 2

ACK! What a confusing emotional turmoil and drama filled time of life. I know you don't believe it right now, but all is not lost! Get interested in something like a sport or hobby. Lots of physical exercise really does help. Get involved in group activities where you can make friends and keep busy. The busier you are, the more people you meet, the better you'll feel. If you start slipping down and down into depression, talk to someone before it overtakes you. Good luck. Oh, and I love you simply because you're another human being and worthy of it (yeah, I know...how soppy! But, it's true)

Answer 3

Get off of the internet and go to bed! Where are your parents?!!! You're sitting up here worried about some little snot nose boy/girl when what you should be thinking about is your homework and have you done all of your chores!! Is your room clean? Did you take the trash out? You have PLENTY of time to think about relationships, but if you are in middle school, that means you are between the ages of 12-14....which means you should not be on the computer at this hour so GOODNIGHT!!!

Answer 4

well excuse me for not feeling sorry for you, but i didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16, but by that time, I was graduating from high school because i was always 1 year ahead but nothing bad happened to me. You feel that way because of your hormones and that's it! Knowing everything I know now, I feel stupid for being so immature those years, hating my parents and wishing I had a boyfriend, but everything comes with time. This is just a phase, you'll get over it soon and you'll start loving and understanding your parents and suffering for a man/woman that will soon hurt your feelings or make you the happiest person ever. Be patient!

Answer 5

I feel the same way, all of my friends are either married or have bf/gf's. Don't let it upset you. It's better to wait for the right person to come along. When that person does, you'll know. Be patient and have faith in love, that one day you'll find the right person. You aren't unloved, because someone out there that has either met you or not loves you already. You'll be fine.

Answer 6

First of all you are very young and having a boyfriend at this time should not be a priority, but getting good grades and keeping your head straight. Well all you can do is be yourself and wait on someone special to come to you. You just don't want someone that will bring you pain in your life. Cause believe me that you rather be by yourself than be in a relationship wondering how and why are you wit this person. Just wait and pray that God will send you someone. I did it took me a very long time. I just wanted to be with anyone and it didn't matter. I went through so many trials and tribulations just because I felt as if I needed someone to love me. All it was that I needed to love myself so when the right one comes (cause he did) you will be prepared. You have to love yourself in order for someone to love you back and truly appreciate you. I promise the MR. RIGHT will come before you know it BUT IN THE FUTURE WAY IN THE FUTURE!!. I hope I helped you.

Answer 7

You don't need another person to make you feel loved. Try loving yourself first, then everyone else will love you also. Don't look to others to give you your worth, you'll never be satisfied that way. Your only in middle school, you have many, many years ahead of you to be in love. Enjoy your time alone now, trust me, years from now you'll have a family and miss your alone time. I know, that it's hard to realize now, but it will happen I can almost guarantee it. Good luck!

Answer 8

first of all, not every one else has a bf/gf. if they do, they're stupidly wasting their time. middle school is not time for a bf/gf. how foolish. this is the time to develop yourself so that one day you have something to offer someone! to develop yourself so that you know how TO CHOOSE a partner, not desparately hope someone (anyone) chooses you.

you've got a lot of time - let it come in its proper time.

Answer 9

The perfect guy has just not come around yet, don't feel unloved, just look forward to meeting that perfect guy for u.

Answer 10

Why do you have to be like everyone else? Be an individual. So you don't have a b/f or g/f, less hassles that way, no head games or breakingup problems. Celebrate being an individual!