i am a really good friend once in the door...but i have such a terribly hard time making friends-i am so shy i will hide from people. i get so anxious and self conscious. help! any suggestions
2006-10-14 19:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by tiff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well i have pretty much shut myself down emotionally and now i want to be social again--however i think i lost the ability to be myself and thats the problem
lonliness can kill a persons soul
2006-10-14 19:43:04 · update #1
by the way-i am an adult
2006-10-14 19:44:03 · update #2
learn to love yourself just the way you are. maybe try to meet some people at church or in a work-out class. get out there and volunteer somewhere. or take a class. make your life a celebration. you only live once.
2006-10-14 19:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i was like that do being indoors is not good because u will miss out in life if you afraid of people badly you suffering from social phobia you need to go to the psychiatrist is a doctor that reads mines he will give you medication to relax you nervousness. I know when someone yells at you you get very nervous. Talk to somebody you know even your parents tell them that you need help that you need to go and see a psychiatrist. But you have to go out and make friends.
2006-10-14 19:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by KILLAH CAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be yourself.
be someone else till you feel at ease.
then be you
2006-10-14 19:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind over matter pal! you can do it
2006-10-14 19:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by rjyll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! can we be friends?
2006-10-14 19:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Diet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋