My husband and I are the envy of our friends and relatives because we have such a great relationship. I cheated on him for no reason. We had a baby 6 wks ago, realized that the baby is not my husband's. He is so excited about our precious son. Should I tell him the truth?
2006-10-14 19:03:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you should tell your husband the truth. It would not be fair to him nor to the baby to think that they belong to each other. That child needs to know who his real father is. Now is the time to tell your husband; not years later. Really you should have told him long before now before he got attached to the baby. Now it is up to your husband whether or not he wants to stay with you and the baby because you have violated that trust and also broke a commandment: Thou shalt not committ adultery.
2006-10-14 19:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. luckily married men do no longer cheat. What you describe right here: "he's often seen a reliable guy---an in touch father, perplexing working. His spouse is loving and eye-catching. They spend very lots of time mutually and that they do no longer possibly have any considerable fights after 3 years mutually." - would not unavoidably describe a "luckily married guy" If he's cheating...odds are...you may upload "his spouse is loving and eye-catching yet SHE would not provide HIM WHAT HE desires interior the mattress room. women, you may disagree with me yet this could be a actuality. There are those men who run around all of the time because of fact they are shallow and could be in touch continually with diverse women, yet you instruct me a guy who's oftentimes trouble-free that strays and that i'm able to in all probability instruct you a guy who isn't satisfied interior the mattress room. settle for it. that's the reality.
2016-10-19 10:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait see what the baby looks like ,if it is totaly unlike him you may not have an alternative
you made your own bed and now must lay in it what ever you do you have destroyed something that must be near impossible to repair ,and you must pay for the consequenses.iether alone or others may suffer as well.
for the sake of the child your husband and your mariage
the lie would be the best solution ,
but will you be able to keep it for the rest of your life
this way only you will pay
2006-10-14 19:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you have such a good relationaship then why did you cheat on him? that was pretttty stupid huh? how do you know it isnt his? you should tell him though becasue if he ever found out some other way that would be worse and i you guys are so happy hopefully you can work this out and raise the kid as if it was both of yours.
2006-10-14 19:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by mm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously not happily married if you cheated on your husband with another man. that's the first thing you need to realize.
do you really think he's gonna be "happily" married once he finds out that you were with another man and gave birth to this mans child. yeah, you should tell him and next thing you need to do is call jerry springer.
2006-10-14 19:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i reckon your relationship is in big trouble, in a way your stuffed if u do and stuffed if u dont, its a real catch 22, if u wanna have a father to your baby and someone who you love and support by yourside then id say its best to shut your mouth, but on the same token it could all blow up in your face if your baby needs urgent medical treatment and the blood tests uncover it that way, id say its only a matter of time b4 he finds out, i think you should tell him b4 u dig yourself any deeper, if he chooses to forgive you then your a lucky lady, good luck
2006-10-14 19:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by slippery seal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously not as happy as you think or you wouldn't have cheated. Tell him about the baby, he has a right to know; it's cruel to keep the truth from him.
2006-10-14 19:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by remmymarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should! That is very deceitful!!! Okay, about the cheating..I think its way wrong, I would never on my hubby, but to each her own. If you cheated, fine, but the fact that there is another life involved now, you definately should tell him. I think women that dont tell the man possibility of nother father are de-frauding, cuz its leading him on. TELL HIM!!!
2006-10-14 19:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by heyheyhey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him the truth and while your at it tell the real father he has a son,
2006-10-14 19:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should because he has the right to know but be prepared for him to react in a upset manner.
2006-10-14 19:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Charmed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋