im male and a virgin is it her fault or mine about this prediciment im in
2006-10-14 18:59:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound like my brother
2006-10-14 19:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Spadesboffin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here lieth your problem:
You're on the computer asking things like this instead of getting out there and getting a life.
It's no one's "fault" that your life is nearly over and mummy still cooks for and irons your underwear.
Oh, wait, for a second there I actually thought that this was a genuine posting...*runs off into the kitchen to tell 92 year old mumsy what just happened...*
2006-10-14 19:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by jinz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right where you put yourself. It is no one's fault or no one's victory you are in the position you are in because it is neither good or bad or negative or positive. You are living the way you really want to and that is ok if it makes you happy if it does not than shut up and focus because what the hell is wrong with you anyway making the person whom gave you life look like **** on the world wide web? You are an *** ho?e!
2006-10-14 19:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not have a job, you are living off your mom for free, if
you are not contributing monitarily, or cleaning, or cooking. Then
you need to find a job and get motivated and get your own place,
so your mom can have her space and you can have yours.The
fact that your're a virgin, that is no disgrace, that is a good thing.
2006-10-14 19:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Patty T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult, your choices are your own. Blaming your mother, who may well be overprotective or smothering, is just an excuse. You want out, get out. You want to stay, stay. Sorry this sounds a bit harsh but we all have to take responsibility for our own actions and stop looking to blame others.
2006-10-14 19:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why point fingers... it is a waste of time and energy.... you need to be living your own life.... love the mom, start looking for what you are yurning for....
start with something simple like going away on the weekends, geting a room and touring and seeing things you have never seen before... famous work of arts, locations, eat new foods, new cloths, new people etc...
good luck...
2006-10-14 19:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats reallly sad. cant u stand on ur own 2 feet yet?? i mena 37... u should be married with kids or atleast a girlfriend.. and its ur fault ur mom cant forve u to lose ur virginity an se cant force u to live wither. its ur choice. ur fault.
2006-10-14 19:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...it is okay to live with ur mom but you have to look after yourself as well. Try to find a girl and get hooked up with her. Or try to explore the world. The world is big...don't remain in one place forever.
2006-10-14 19:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by rumman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to have to say this ...Its not her fault its your.s. Your asking this question so you must feel unhappy with your situation.Why not leave? Is your mum ill?
2006-10-14 19:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by caroline l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a suggestion get up look for a place to live by your self pack your stuff and leave Mommy its time to grow up and get your own life.
2006-10-14 19:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋