well, we became bff's last year and all we ever did was spend all our time together. then just a week ago, she started being rele stand off-ish to me and i thought it was weird. but then she gave a note to my other friend that said i annoy her blah blah blah--she just barely said two words to me the last few days and yesterday she called me cuz she wanted something. what should i do about her? also, last year i was the only one that was her friend when no one else liked her
2006-10-14 18:55:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would say cut out the middle man and talk to her. be upfront and honest and ask if you did something-or why she is acting differently. if shes the person you think she is(a friend) she'll tell you and things will get better-if she isnt someone who will be honest with you, you dont want a friend like that anyways!
2006-10-14 18:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she maybe going through somethings. Since you have became her friend made others want to become her friend. She may have been using . When she called you should have told her I thought I was annoying. Then you could have seen how she truly felt. Don't really sounds like she a friend anyway. I say if you like her keep her as an associate nothing more.
2006-10-15 02:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know u but if this is how she is going to treat u after you were the only one that was there for her when no one else was do u really want a friend like that. One that is going to talk about u behind ur back and be mean to u with friends like that who needs enemy's just my opinion. I would try to find someone to hang out with that doesnt seem two faced
2006-10-15 02:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by earthgoddess777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her the same way she treats you. When she calls you just because she wants something. Don't give her what she wants. Tell her that she annoys you...blah blah blah...see how she likes it.
2006-10-15 02:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS? um, what i would do is just not be friends with her any more, and then when she realizes--if she ever does--that you arnt friends anymore, she might want to talk things over, she might have gotten something to her head sence she finally got a friend? or take her aside and talk to her....dont women do that?talk about their problems?
good luck!!
but then again, sometimes we dont know ourselves as much as we think we do and you might be a little annoying? because my friend never realized how selfcentered she was untill i pointed it out to her one day and she felt really bad about it because i told her that it was really starting to get annoying and she wanted to change it!! so, just talk to her about whatever and then ask other ppl you hang around if you seem to be annoying to them in any way at all....and let them know that they have to be completely truthful with you casue you want to change any bad habbits tha twould make them hate you or somethig?!
OTHERWISE, i wouldnt take it personal!
2006-10-15 02:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to talk 2 that ***** and ask her y d **** is she treatin u like a piece of **** ??
2006-10-15 01:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by #1_cute_baby_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can you should probably chat to her and see whats going on!!
2006-10-15 01:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go and ignore her....
2006-10-15 02:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋