I wanted to know if anyone else has encountered this but I use to always think climaxing is just moans after moans but when I do its just a sigh of relief it feels good but nothing like...AHHH... ya know then again I am still a virgin I only finger myself..so could that be why?
2006-10-14 18:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Self-induced orgasms tend to be lower intensity, I find. You'll get better at it with practice, and once you're with a partner who can make you orgasm, you might get the AHHHs you're looking for.
2006-10-14 18:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Min02 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds about like it to me. A lot of work for so little of a feeling. It is more exciting to be involved in the love making then the climax. Very large build up for very little return and then the other person will fall in love with you and you have to deal with that too. Makes it not worth it. So make sure it is someone you really want to be with and make sure they really want to be with you or just don't do it.
And the moans are not the climax it is the feelings you get from being with someone you really like and the moans are before you reach the climax.
2006-10-14 18:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, there are different types of orgasms. They're not all alike. Some are amazing, others are like 'that's it?, oh well time to do laundry.' Romance novels and porn are unrealistic, so base reality on your experiences. I was so shocked when I kissed a guy for the first time. I kept thinking 'Where are my fireworks? I thought the ground was supposed to shake or something.' It took years for me to realize some things take time.
Ah, youth. :)
2006-10-17 08:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no rule about how you act or breath or yell during an orgasm. All women are different...and with age and when you become sexually active the sigh may change to a yell or a moan or ......
2006-10-14 18:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure. You know when you climax its like a strange yet pleasent feeling that overwhelms you body and it feels really good.
2006-10-14 19:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by erika h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do it fast around your clit, and watch a dirty film or think of someone you want to bewith who maybe hot. when feel like your going and cant stop because it feels sooo good keep going and you will know! OMG then your clit will throb and contract in a good way, but you will feel like you cant do anymore for like 5-10 min. have fun!
2006-10-14 18:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well when you are wanking your not usually putting in lots of strenuous effort, that could be y ur not breathlessly moaning
2006-10-14 20:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by double d debbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly
2006-10-14 18:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to have actual sex for that.
2006-10-14 18:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by MaRShmellOw DON-DON 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that could be it.
but i like the idea that u touch yourself.
gimme 10 points, please? pleeeease?
2006-10-14 18:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋