Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions
For a love so free....
Will never fly away.
~ by Dick Sutphen ~
2006-10-14 18:39:46 · 28 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forgive me for my broken state...this is a serious question I have asked at a time in my life where I have never felt so low...
2006-10-14 18:48:17 · update #1
There are lots of guys like that floating around, the question is will your own prejudices about age, color, height, weight, job, income, car and appearance stand in the way.
Also understand everyone has a psychological make up, which has generated books like Good Girls with Bad Guys.
You have to look within yourself and look at the applicants for a long time before deciding.
People decide too quickly. A guys gotta be really interested in you if he hangs around for two years without so much as a kiss.
2006-10-14 18:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Us guys are more physical than emotional. we tend to take things for granted. we never expose our weak spots because we are the strong providers not the nurturers like the woman is. we feel that any partnership needs a leader so we assume that role. if we want something we go get it or take it. However, i for one wish I was able to change without being forced to change. I wish I had had a role model to teach me to respect and hold dear a woman who is worth being kept and put on a pedestal. I am great at giving advice but suck at following it. I hope in your case you find that man who is able to break the mold and treat you as a princess and love you completely. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-15 14:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by mjack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we all love with fear coz we got hurt before
we all ask questions first then when we know their plan then thats the time we trust
we all demands sometimes
we want that persons attention only to us not to other people
yes accept you but you wish you could adjust coz its causing some problems but if you do change for the better
love is free it's doesn't mean you don't compromise
In love its give and take
it takes two to work the relationship not one way
2006-10-15 02:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for perfection, you'll be alone for the rest of your life, a love like the one you described only appends in movies. What you should look for is for a person intelligent enough to get middle points, for example may be he doesn't like pepperoni and you don't like Italian sausage, so if the 2 of you go out for a pizza don't ask for the whole pepperoni pie, he won't like it and don't ask for the Italian sausage pie, you won't like it, so ask for a pie half pepperoni and half Italian sausage, like this both will be happy. This is a way that you can use for any aspects of life inside a relationship.
2006-10-15 01:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Javy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is always someoneright next to you who treats you like that, but we are too blind to see it. however when that person tells you, never let go because you will only feel a pure love once in your life. i miss my x and she is all i think about, its been 7+months since the brake up. anyway i am sure that your soul mate is coming close to your arms. i hope that you find someone
email me to talk more
2006-10-15 01:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats rare. unless u found noah from the notebook, you probablly wont find him with ALL of those attributes. its called a dream....dont think that if your boyfriend or husband doestn love u without fear, or trust u without questioning (etc..) then he loves u any less. men arnt that perfect! accept it honey! although if you do find someone like that DONT let him go! hold on to it!
2006-10-15 01:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by ElBee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, those standards are quite high. Of that list only the first I find to be inportant
2006-10-15 01:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Fol67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are like that, it's just that they are pressured by society to hide their feelings. Not all guys are the bad-asses they want to be :-)
I know cuz I'm a soft guy that cries when watching sad movies
2006-10-15 01:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Eric C 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
We all want that,but i'm not sure he exists.Maybe in dreams.Tehre is no such thing as a perfect man (or woman) in real life.We have to accept some things as they are.
2006-10-15 01:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by flexduty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..
i think that you are asking for way tooo much, i mean who is actually like that in the world?
can you honestly say that you can meet all these requirements, if you cant then how can you expect him to?
2006-10-15 01:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋