Thanks, for answering in advance!;)
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I am just wondering.......
Have a Beautiful day!;)
Take care!
2006-10-14
18:36:21
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➔ Philosophy
Thanks, Tinkerbell;)
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2006-10-14
18:40:38 ·
update #1
This is not about : "me"..
I just like to know.....
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2006-10-14
18:52:54 ·
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Hummingbird, I am truly sorry to hear that..but, I know she is in "your heart"
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2006-10-14
19:00:23 ·
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You're welcome, Oneclassicmaiden!;)
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2006-10-15
16:39:53 ·
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Unconditionally? Not a one.
I guarantee you that a few weeks or years of torture could make just about anyone hate me.
I know that just my own idiosyncracies have driven many people off. Just think what I could do if I actually TRIED to make people despise me and was well-equipped to do so!
Mua ha ha!
2006-10-14 18:44:45
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answered by Doctor Why 7
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Kimberly, I think "unconditional love" is a beautiful concept. I also think it is an "urban legend" perpetuated by any number of persons, organizations, cults etc. I say that because I believe if you insult a person who "unconditionally" loves you, long enough, ignore them or do a heinious act that brings embarrassment or shame to them, they will tell you to get lost. So much of "love" is based on you fufilling the expectations of that person. "I love you as long as you love me and make me feel good" is more what I think 21st century love is about. I hope I'm wrong. I love love, and I love loving people and being loved in return. Love is what makes life worth living, and if you're feeling lonely, the best thing is get out and love or help somebody and love will come to you. But I do believe love is something we work at: i.e. doing nice and thoughtful things for the person we love-- treating them like we would want to be treated. I hope you find unconditional love Kimberly, not based on what you own or who you know, whether you're 'cool' or not. I think love is a wonderful thing but I don't believe it is unconditional in our world. Have a happy life!
-Spec
2006-10-15 02:14:29
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answered by Spec 2
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If personal identity has anything to do with the continuity of my psychological or physical states, then I suppose if there was a discontinuity-- such that you perform some horrendous, uncharacteristic act -- a person in love with "you" would not be wrong to be out of love with this new person.
2006-10-15 01:42:46
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answered by -.- 6
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Everyone tries to, but I know there are times when I'm not lovable.
My mother is probably the only one, with my wife coming in next for a close second.
2006-10-15 02:23:40
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answered by elthe3rd 4
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My wonderful Knight in Shining Armor husband "King" Ralph and my 2 cats, Tank & Silkie!
2006-10-15 02:43:54
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answered by midnightlydy 6
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YES ! The very thought of that person drowns me deep in the ocean of his compassion !
And it is not just about me alone ! Many , perhaps do not experience his 'being' that way.... When he is around, I would just humbly point a finger at him, if somebody asks "what does compassion mean to you?" !
2006-10-15 02:39:06
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answered by Spiritualseeker 7
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It depends, then on whether they love your being - because you are or what you are, or what you have or hold etc. If you lose the what... then the love would no longer exist. But then if they love your existence - who you are - then you would have to lose that being through death or some other phenomenon to lose that love. But what of love - and who? Probably only my mother.
2006-10-15 01:48:55
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answered by EuroBeats 1
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No strings attached, no agenda, love that is unconditional? Only one person has DR.AGAPE, take the love test at his web site. Then ask yourself if you do love for no good reason.
2006-10-15 01:45:59
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answered by dsheppard65 2
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Yes. Me. I have won the love of the hardest person on earth to win, and it will never be revoked.
2006-10-15 02:11:59
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answered by Porky 2
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Nope,
I used to think my mum but not anymore.
I thought my husband but no no
I hoped my kids but it doesn't look like it
mmm, let me see...does buddy the dog qualify as someone?
2006-10-15 04:00:50
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answered by webby 5
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