i feel like such a whore, not to mention, played like a motherf(ker. he rarely calls me, and i'm always so lonely. he probably loves his babymama, and i'm just another mistress on the side. what do i do?
2006-10-14 18:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get over him. he obviously has issues way bigger than you. and the last thing you need is to get involved in babymamadrama, which will happen if you stay in this "relationship".
2006-10-14 18:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Curiosity killed the cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a mistress is a woman having an affair with a married man. That is not your problem. Your problem is that you gave your body to someone who only wanted a temporary fix to his need for pleasure. You need to move on and get over it. There's no way you can reclaim what you have GIVEN AWAY. Now, pick yourself up and start feeling better about yourself. Next time, don't give it away to someone who does not have your interest at heart.
2006-10-15 01:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never EVER sleep with someone who is currently in a relationship. You are doing yourself a great disservice... as well as his wife, or babymamma as you put it. He lives with her and has sex with her plenty I am sure..I mean he produced a baby with her. He's using you, and you are allowing it to happen. I wouldn't give this dirtbag the time of day. I feel sorry for the mother of his baby. Put yourself in her shoes and have some self respect.
2006-10-15 01:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by brat789456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off
calm down
i know that may sound like a mean thing to say...
he seems to have other things in his life...tell him u like him if u must
but he has a 'babymama' as u said
he doesn't seem like the right guy for you, 'rarely calls' and ya had sex,
do not let him use u for sex
it's wrong to you, and his babymama
this guy sounds horrible,
you deserve better
2006-10-15 01:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by courage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a long walk off a short pier. That should wake you up you brainless -----. And watch your language missie, you come off sounding a bit hard. Now go back to school and make something of yourself. And send the guy a moldy fruitcake.
2006-10-15 01:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if he is with her still, that is probably where he is gonna stay, and just want you, at his own convience, don't give him that chance again, get out before someone gets physically hurt, she may not take it too lightly that you are sleeping with her man.
2006-10-15 01:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off and find someone else you deserve to have someone who treats you as more than a convenient booty call.
2006-10-15 01:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by BLADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a little self respect. He is just using you and you are allowing it.
2006-10-15 01:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH GOD!!!!! Just because you had sex with him doesnt mean anything other than you were an easy lay, and maybe you werent good enough to keep........
2006-10-15 01:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by sweetkas_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him; he's using you and it's not morally ethical to be sleeping with someone who's taken.
2006-10-15 01:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋