Recently, me and my best friend of 3 years have since gone our ways. I can't helped feeling betrayed because I was there for her anytime she needed, but she just left me in a heartbeat for some new friends. I like many other people, felt hurt and I began to hate her and she became nothing to me.
So the problem is, she recently tried to get in contact with me and I am not sure of what to do. I still fill betrayed but I am not sure if I should give her another chance.
I am really confused!
can you guys help me? some stories and insight would be so great!
2006-10-14 18:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by Mllepoulet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should tell her how you feel you sound like a good down to earth kind of person do what feels right you have been such good friends she should know how you feel maybe if you tell her she will realize what she has done nd she could fix it tonight go to god in pray he always knows what to do.
2006-10-14 18:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by miawannabeurfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this same problem, and from my experience from taking her back as a friend never turned out good. She do the same thing, and mistreat me over and over again. Don't make the same mistake unless you are absolutely sure that she isnt going to do that to you.
2006-10-14 18:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband built his own home, he had his best friend of 40 yrs. wired the house wrong, he hooked yp a 220 to a 110 outlet and the house caught fire, and we lost every thing because of this guy to yrs later my husband calls this guy up and says i forgive you.
2006-10-14 18:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by jovanna_griffin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to her. See if there was a misunderstanding. Maybe she realizes she did you wrong. But know that if she admits that and you decide to be friends, you have to be able to move forward.
2006-10-14 18:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by beccamt2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHILE I DON'T REALLY HAVE A STORY FOR YOU.I DO THINK THAT EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE.I MEAN YOU WERE HER FRIEND FOR 3 YEARS.WHY NOT GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY AND LET HER KNOW JUST HOW SHE MADE YOU FEEL AND HOW YOU FEEL NOW ABOUT THE WHOLE THING.GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-14 18:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my best friend once betrayed me... he was a brother to me... but i forgive him because he was sorry... i wont forget that betrayal, but i still love him like a brother....
Forgiving is really hard... and forgetting is not possible... but a friendship (a real one) always is better than no friendship at all.
Talk to her, tell her how you fell...
thats my advice.... good luck
2006-10-14 18:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kiba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly if MY perfect buddy slept with my boyfriend (which she might want to not in any respect do) i do not comprehend what i might want to do. i might want to be truly pissed, and that i might want to opt to kill her, yet she's my perfect buddy. i recognize her to lack of life, and she is been by technique of my area when you consider that i replaced into 8. i does no longer be ready to easily throw 16 years of friendship down the drain over this. it would want to certainly make the effort, perhaps a year or so, yet i might want to forgive her, and stay acquaintances consisting of her. I in basic terms love her too a lot to lose her. As for my boyfriend, i might want to unload him, and verify out to flow on. i does no longer e doing it for her income truly, yet for mine. I truly do not imagine i might want to operate without her in my life. yet, she also hasn't ever carried out something that terrible to me, so i wager my answer isn't the perfect. i might want to might want to be in that difficulty to absolutely comprehend what i wanted to do. anyhow, i wager my answer is definite, i might want to. anybody advantages a 2d probability, pretty those that you want, and that love you.
2016-12-04 20:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like a break up you know an ex is an ex for a reason. same thing applies here
2006-10-14 18:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. answer one is right.
I guess dont completely ignore her, but hear her out and ask hwer why you guys should be friends again.
DONT be afraid to be blunt.listen to her answer and see if its worth it.
2006-10-14 18:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope! End the "friendship" immediately... You won't regret my advice. She deserves better friends than you.
2006-10-14 18:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋