I have been with my boyfriend fro 3 years now and we have been living together for 1 year and 6 months. We have a 10 month old baby. Things have been different since then. He wants to act like he is single. He talks and flirts with girls and I have heard that he has cheated on me. What should I do?
2006-10-14 18:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by LaDii PyRoH_LoKs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should leave this guy and make a life for yourself and your baby without him. Instead of him accepting his responsibilities like a real man he let his responsibilities bring out the worst in him. He acts like he's single because he wants to be single. If he cheated on you once he's going to do it again. All this is stress you don't need in your life. You want to be a good mother to your baby so you will have to make some changes. Until he's ready to grow up there isn't anything you can do. You and your baby deserve better then what you're getting. Also, please file a petition for for child support. This is something the courts will make him do.
2006-10-15 07:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard he was cheating on you?Do u know for sure?Well from what you said he's acting like he doesn't care,flirting with other girls that's rude.But you do have a kid togther so i would suggest that you talk to him before you make any big decisions.Good luck!
2006-10-15 01:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by flexduty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFRONT HIM... If it's true that he's going around on you behind your back... I don't see much choice but to leave him and take the baby with you. Obviously he doesn't love you and more than likely never did.
The baby makes life too real for him. He never grew up or else he'd have said, "I want you in my life permanently, will you marry me?"
2006-10-15 01:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, get an education, learn to support yourself and have higher expectations for the man you give your heart to than having a penis. If the current boyfriend wishes to act single, grant him his wish.
2006-10-15 01:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you some who wants to be in a serious relationship,having a baby with some one dose Not bring him or her closer Most of the time it pushes them away.
2006-10-15 01:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him. He's not a fit boyfriend and not a fit father. Your child will pick up his habits/values. Get out of there but check with a lawyer about your parental rights first.
2006-10-15 01:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by beccamt2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD CONFRONT HIS A@@ TO SEE WHAT'S GOING ON. IF IT IS TRUE THEN HONEY MAYBE U AND YO BABY SHOULD JUST LEAVE BECAUSE IT WILL GET WORST IF HE IS OUT THAT ACTING LIKE HE IS SINGLE. AND U DO NOT NEED THAT SHI$ AT ALL IN YO LIFE OR YO BABY'S LIFE
2006-10-15 01:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him, be a family, maybe having a baby is giving him confidence, and the flirting is a result. be a more prominent figure in his life!
2006-10-15 01:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋