It is a rather complicated issue but I think I need help, I am in a relationship with this girl who is really great, but...a couple of weeks ago she confessed to me that she kissed and did some pretty nasty things with another girl. The girl she did this with was a bisexual girl with whom she hung out with that night (for the record this was the girl who we got the apartment we live in from). I and my girlfriend had a fight and I threatened to break up with her. The girl she hung out with consoled her then tried to hit on her, one thing led to another and the next thing I know my girlfriend was kissing and fingering the girl ( I know its crazy). The next night the girl offered to come and visit her but my girlfriend was afraid of what could happen and called this male friend to come stay in OUR HOUSE. (I was not there at the time) and then the bisexual girl and the guy friend my girlfriend called, ended up having sex while she was there according to her she did not do anything and every information I have been able to gather backs up her story, she told me about the lesbian escapade a day before it happened and then the next day she told me about the guy friend, I although she has been working really hard to prove to me that what she did was just a mistake I often have doubts that she told me the whole truth, and even though she swore that she is in no way attracted to women I still have my doubts about that every now and then...i know this is a crazy story and you are probably confused but i just feel really stressed about it. i Love her and i forgave her even because she was young and naive (she was 18 and she was very sheltered as a child) but every now and then I think about it and I just get angry, we are both trying to make things work and sometimes they seem to be, but every now and again I get really angry and confused about the whole thing. I don't want to but it keeps on happening. What should I do? I think I need some help
2006-10-14 18:01:38 · 10 answers · asked by ericktravel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone makes mistakes in their relationships some time.I know this one sounds like its the worst but its not.If u really love her give her another chance. One day you will screw up and will want her forgiveness.Just keep an eye on things and follow your concious.
2006-10-14 18:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by bundyal38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for your girlfriend KEEP IT ONE ON ONE! It may be cool as hell for a while if you get group action with her and the other girl but you'll end up paying for it. Talk with her and decide if you are able to stay together or if not end it don't drag it out.
2006-10-15 01:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by BLADE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any other man would be sparkling happy...but in your case is not like that. Define with her the type of relation ship you wanna have. If you can forgive her...go ahead. and if not......just take some time before deciding what you want to do. You sounf very confused and she could be so, too. Good luck on this one!!
2006-10-15 01:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by scorpionbeat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both in denial,You have trust issues and she has bisexual issues.I'm not trying to make fun of your problem but it should be clear to you that you need to move on before you begin to hate her for what she did to you.Sorry.......................Be friends or something but move on.And by all means get tested.
2006-10-15 01:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two ways you can look at this, one it doesn't matter if it was a girl she still cheated on you. secondly and this is the option i would go with especially if your girl was hot and so was the bisexual girl, i would go out and have me a big ol' sex sandwich, they would be the bread and you would be the meat.
2006-10-15 01:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lol naive my *** shes a skank and you know it she screwed some girl and probably that guy too ditch her find a new chic
2006-10-15 01:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time ask her if you can watch and beat your dork while watching
2006-10-15 01:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by policeguy1967 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her @ss
2006-10-15 01:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy! if she still wants you, you're in heavens...;)
2006-10-15 01:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by MuzicLv'er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to all get together and have some sexuall fun, duh. email for details.
2006-10-15 01:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋