My boyfriends driving me crazy. He is so easy going its sickening. Its always "whatever you want to do", or "we can do whatever you want" as he jumps up to take my plate to the sink for me. If I got to do something its always "I can do that for you". He acts like a beaten puppy so to speak or whipped as some might say. I hate it! I want his input, his opinion and I want him disagree with me sometimes. His agreeing with everything I say irritates me so bad. What can I do? This is really annoying me. Oh yeah and maybe I should say that we live together.
2006-10-14 18:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him know that it frustrates you how you're always the one making decisions. If he honestly doesn't care where you go to eat or what movie the two of you watch, that's fine, but why doesn't he have a mind of his own? He might be so afraid of losing you he doesn't dare disagree, but let him know that you would like to once in a while. Otherwise, milk it for all it's worth and get him to take out the garbage, do the dishes, clean the bathroom...okay, maybe not. But if he's that whipped, the extra chores might help him come out of his "beaten puppy" stage.
2006-10-14 18:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by NSisifo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk about submissive, sheesh, would be driving me batty too! Get him to start to open up, tell him you want him to make decisions, and give his opinion on things too. let him plan a night for the two of you, (can use the lost bet gig) but he can't ask for any input from you. definitely let him know that you are getting frustrated with the behavior though.
2006-10-14 18:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be his way of getting under your skin. If it is it's definately working. LOL. Hook up with me if you want someone to disagree with you. I promise not to disappoint you. LMAO. Oh and by the way grrrrrrrrrrr? isn't really a question. : )
2006-10-14 18:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by zilch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have talked to him about it haven't you? If this is irritating you as much as you say, you need to ask him to stop. He's obviously a people pleaser, so it might be a hard thing for him to stop. If he keeps it up, whip him.
2006-10-14 18:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a Bi**h!!!!! Do you not know what you have? Some people
2006-10-14 18:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh you are ungreatful...you should stop complaining and start enjoying it..
b/c trust me he is not gonna stay like that forever...he is going to change...
2006-10-14 18:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask us? Ask him. Since you are shacking up you have ample opportunity.
2006-10-14 18:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont you want that your man is being a gentle man to you?,hes really shy to you ,UGH
2006-10-14 18:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by nikki c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boo ferken hoo quit your bitching and enjoy it while you can, they won't do that forever
2006-10-14 18:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋