I am a married woman -- and very happily so. But I have wondered on occasion if I am bisexual, or if I just have a healthy appreciation for the female body... could be either I suppose. I have cybered with other women before and had a lot of fun doing it, but never done anything in person and would never violate my relationship with my husband... and it would take a very special person for my to trust them enough to invite them for a threesome!
Thanks for your help. :-)
2006-10-14 17:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Phoenix's Mommy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I remember once in elementary school I thought I might be attract to a girl who was in my class... I was VERY Christian back then and scared to be something that was considered sinful. I have though to myself of some female friends that they were pretty hot and they might not be bad to give it a shot with... but clearly I never did or was gutsy enough to... (or felt I could trust them enough)
2006-10-14 17:55:43 · update #1
Well I liked guys since, well, I was raised to think girls are supposed to like boys. Through high school and middle school, I had several crushes on girls. But, I'd always chalk it up to "Oh, I just admire them" or something. When I got to the point I stopped lying to myself, I accepted that I was bisexual.
2006-10-14 17:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known I was attracted to both genders since I was a child. I am very female oriented though, and even though I was married to a man for a long time and had children, now grown, and have had several long term relationships with men, frankly I get a whole lot more satisfaction from women. My life partner is a woman and she will be the last relationship I ever have because she is the one I've been searching for all my life.
2006-10-15 01:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally, a real question!
I had an attraction to males (I am female) from about the onset of puberty. However, I later noticed that I was a little too turned on by seeing women have sex in pornography. I started having sexual dreams about women and occasionally fantasizing about them. It became pretty clear.
Truth be told, I am more attracted to men physically than I am to women. I don't think that you can start having sexual fantasies about other women and still keep calling yourself straight. Luckily, I grew up knowing that sexual orientation simply wasn't an issue of morality. My mother taught me that what consenting adults do with each other is no one's business but their own. Many people with same-sex attractions are not so lucky.
2006-10-15 02:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I always knew that I was more attached to my best friends then normal girls were, but I guess that the wake up call was when I started chatting with a lesbian online on occasion and started thinking, hey, maybe this could be me. However, I still liked guys, so it was pretty easy for me to figure out how I was classified.
2006-10-15 00:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ami K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are attracted to someone if you really want to kiss them; boy or girl. But relationships are complicated, if you are happy you don't have to act on the bisexuality. Just honor and accept the feelings. But don't ruin a good thing.
2006-10-15 00:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by peachykeenspeechy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was bi when another girl could turn my head fast as a man. I have dated both, am married now to a man. But honestly the threesome thing is not but trouble. Starts out cool, but if it continues feelings get hurt and resentment breeds. Have friends who have tried it.
2006-10-15 00:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I first knew when a chance encounter presented itself. I too am a primarily heterosexual woman, but now know that the world of desire and pleasure is a lot wider than I thought...
2006-10-15 00:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by bot_parody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not bi, I'm a full-on lesbian.
But I realized my sexual orientation when I first contemplated kissing a girl.
So, if you can imagine yourself kissing a particular woman that you're attracted to, then chances are, you're bi.
G'luck!
And I hope you won't have any problems with your husband.
2006-10-15 07:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never considered mys elf bi.
i have zero interest in men
2006-10-15 00:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was bi when I found myself always fanasizing about guys when having sex with my girlfriend.
2006-10-15 01:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by smallporgies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋