... a vibrator? Are there husbands who would be turned off by that? Do you think she should surprise him with a show or should she talk to him about it before buying it? What do you husband and wives think? If he doesn't like it should she just keep it for herself to use when he is not around?
AND, do guys like to use them for the stimulating vibrating sensation against their body's?
2006-10-14 17:47:54 · 24 answers · asked by my2cents 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't hide it. Include him when you use it.
2006-10-14 17:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all it depends on how open your guy is talk to him about it and see what is going on. My husband doesn't mind that i use a vibrator it's just that the only vibrator that i have is one that an ex of mine gave me, but I am planning on buying myself a new one. Oh and some guys are into their woman giving them a show but that is usually with hands only if you know what i mean. Hope that i can be of some help to you.
2006-10-15 01:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by leespitt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a problem with it at all and especially if I was invited to play along. You do have to consider the size of your husband's manhood... don't pull anything out in front of him that dwarfs his toy... some men can't handle that. I like any kind of stimulation that my wife wants to throw my way... I say bring it on! Use it when you are alone too!
2006-10-15 03:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women need more stimulation than others. Try to understand and accept the added things she wishes to bring to your bedroom. Perhaps you can give her a hand. Perhaps you could ask her exactly what she wants you to do. Then move forward and answer her needs. Women are at least 3-5 years ahead of a male sexually, so learn of her desires and start fulfilling both her needs and yours.
2006-10-15 00:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who is confident in his sexual abilities isn't going to be intimidated by a vibrator. I say, if you haven't already, go ahead and buy one. At some point mention it to him and get a feel for how receptive he is about you using one and in the meantime you can get comfortable using it yourself. Even if he doesn't want to use it during sex, you can use it to find out what feels good for you. If he is smart though, he will want you to feel good during sex too so that you'll want to have more of it, hopefully with him.
Adamandeve.com is a good website to order from.
2006-10-15 00:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by JennieLouie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well for my marriage we dont just use a vibrator we have a whole collection. my husband was a little iffy at first then when we started well we will just say it worked for both of us. i use my toys alone and with him. all i did was ask to go look at a sex shop to see what kinda lotions and sexy clothes not to mention the gag gifts so we did and as we were walking around i mentione using a vibrator durring sex. he said it sounded like fn and i baught one. im very straight forward so it was no suprise when i wipped it out during sex . that was the easiest way to just introduce it to our bedroom and sex life. if your hubby says hell no tell him its not for him its for you. if your happy less work they have to do right. good luck hun.
2006-10-15 01:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by evilella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if it was my wife, i would not object at all. I bought my g/f one recently after her old one broke. my g/f has put on shows for me and I loved every second of it and usually joined in as soon as possible. or if said hubby is kinda prudish, buy it anyway hide it where he can't find it and play when he is away. as far as the vibe on a dude, it feels pretty good, and have no problem with her using it on me. i am up for pretty much everything except for it going in my browneye. i draw the line at that
2006-10-15 00:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by smitty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the husband...men just like women are individuals and they all have different ideas and opinions about things. If you want to find out how YOUR husband would feel maybe you should ASK him.
2006-10-15 03:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I caught my X gf (along time ago) accidentally going for it with a vibrator.
I didn't mind, I even thought it was a turn on, I wanted to join in, but she opened her eyes, yelling 'fu*k off', "how would you like me watching you masturbate!"
I thought, " I COULD DO THAT"!
So as I already had a mongrel, I got it out, & she called me a sick c*nt!
I dont use them myself, but I would if my gf's in the mood for a bit extra, which she doesnt require at the moment, l seem to be fullfilling all her sexual desires & needs by far.
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the bedroom!! mmm! Good idea;
'Can l give you 10 points.'
2006-10-15 02:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mosez 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just bought one two weeks ago and they are great for bedroom fun. Many men I know think that it is sexy as hell to watch a woman use one or use one on her his-self. I thought it was a great turn-on for my man. Tip: Try not to get one bigger than the partners "package".
2006-10-15 00:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by crisha4028 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think all women / girls ( married and unmarried ) should have a vibrator or two...
They can use it when hubby isn't around and hubby can use it on her when he is around....
A satisfied woman is a happy woman ....
2006-10-15 01:02:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋