would u leave da relationship after like 6 or more years dat u and da person had or move on and have to start fresh wit some1 from ur past but ur past dont want to really be in a relationship like dat but ur past might just want to try wat with u do stay or u stay and work it out wit ur partner or move on wit an old flame??????
2006-10-14 17:44:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wud lern wut a period is so i can tell other peeps when da sentence ends and when a new thought begins do dat people would know what da hell i was sayin and then they could answer my question and not get a headache tryin to figure out what i said cuz if i have kidz then one day my kidz will want dey mommy to help dem with dey homework.
2006-10-14 17:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on if he is a chronic cheater, if he is sorry, if he is sorry but only because he got caught, it he plans on continuing his cheating. A lot of factors would determine what I would do. If it was a one time thing it would be hard but I would try to forgive him and go on. I would not tolerate it any more in the future, that's for sure.
Let's be honest here though, it sounds to me like you are already making a backup plan with an ex. That's not cool. If you are married to this man and have kids with him you need to find out the whole story and see if it's worth trying to save or not. Don't EVEN be thinking about what you are going to do with someone else.
Good luck & God bless!
2006-10-14 17:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just analyze deeply the reasons why you are doing it. Is it worth it? How much would it hurt to both of you? Are there strong reasons? Those things that just don't have a solution? Things you can't deal with anymore or that you guys can't fix together?? After answering those questions to yourself, think about the best words you can use for the break up trying not to sound extremely hurtful...but be honest with herself and tell her in a very warm way that you are so in love with her but you don't feel comfortable with your relationship anymore. Listen closely to what your partner says and then...make the final decision. Good luck dear!! ;)
2016-05-22 03:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear:
Its really complicated and I know what you are talking abt so here is what I think you should do:
You see galfriend, if he cheated on you and you can't move out becoz of the kids and financial problems and also becoz u still love him and is afraid of being alone then you should make him pay!
Well paying doesn't really mean cheating, I mean you can do it other ways( don't kill anyone though, its not worth it). If you are scared of cheating in reality , and its against your values then just cheat in your mind, it will give ya hope, but since u r already thinking abt it I say you should cheat too.
Yep, if he can do it you can too! But be careful, do not let him know you are cheating coz it will complicate things.Remember that you are cheating not for pleasure but for revenge, for revenge is bitter sweet!
Ps. If u don't wanna cheat, then try and move out with ur kids, then wait awhile and move on with someone else. This life is too short to spend with a cheater and being miserable!
Good Luck with your choices in life and remember its your life and your decision!
Love sanam
2006-10-14 18:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey...revise your grammar first. is very hard to understand what you just wrote.
It depends on you. every person is an individual. I would leave him....I think. But you never know until you go thru it. You and only you can know what is right. How do you feel about it? Can you forgive? Do you remember it all the time? These are questions you should make to yourself before you decide. and......did he tell you or you found out? Honesty is always a plus! Even though you don't forgive him.
2006-10-14 17:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by scorpionbeat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on him with his best friend or one of his relatives then dump him. But only after you have hidden a video camera in the bathroom so you can catch him taking care of himself after you stop sleeping with him. The video will come in handy later when he starts dating other women and you run into him outon the town and he is being an azz..Most bars have Tvs with VCRs and who would refuse a pretty lady the use of their VCR for a minute? He'll never go back into the place >:)
2006-10-14 17:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by crazylifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well penny ya'll did say "I DO" rigth? so to give you an actul answer here and not just say try spell check or toss him or something like that. You are married and have children with your man and he cheated, has he said sorry? if he did then work it out with him and try marriage cousling dont go and get reveange that aint making you any better then him if any thing do it for the KIDS
2006-10-14 17:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Pat the fireman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never works when you take back a cheater for some reason. i would move on but be cautious when i pick the next one, look into his past first before you make the leap. cheating is something one never forgets,you have to ask yourself why they cheated, was it because they just didn't want to work on their marriage, were they remorseful,or do they just want to come back because they got a little of their own medicine.
2006-10-15 05:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're screwed, excuse the word, because now you have kids to think about, more than yourself.
But even though everyone deserves a "second chance" don't be blinded now. Do what is best for your kids, they depend on you at least for the next 12 years
2006-10-14 17:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by MuzicLv'er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek marriage counseling and stay away from your old flame. If it was meant to be with the one from the past you would be with him and not your husband.
2006-10-14 17:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by cbay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋