I'm a guy, he's a guy. I love him so much but he doesn't know that, he thinsk we're mjsut friends with privellages...though I'm still a virgin in every sense, we do have some sex chat occasionally. He has told me he likes me but is afraid of commitment. I'm going over to his house and he's implied having a tyrst with me...which of course I'm not giving into...I need to be in a relationship first! But how far should I go...I'm thinking about letting him take off my jacket and shirt (with my undershirt still in)...but then stopping. I want to get him sexually riled about me because I've heard from mutual friends tht he thinks I'm too innocent to do anything...so he's turned off to that (though I lust after him...along with loving him oh so much). However, I don't wan t to go so far as he ins't interested anymore, you know what I mean? Any ideas on seduction, but not going all the way?
2006-10-14 17:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by RaimundoL 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess one thing that might help is I've already told him my feelings...then he started to tease me in to seeing how much I care for him. Now I'm sick of being the one teased, and I do want him.
2006-10-14 17:31:05 · update #1
Stop trying to mimic the heterosexual world. You are gay, learn about gay life and gay customs. Stop trying to be a tease, it's not cute.
Go as far as you are comfortable, but first learn about safe sex, and be careful to always be safe.
2006-10-14 17:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont play mind games with him, be sincere, be straight forward. If you play mind games, you might lose him anyway and then you'll deserve it too.
2006-10-15 00:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by reggaeboi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be upfront and honest with him or you will probably lose him. don't lead him on and just shut things off as that will just piss him off and he may just forget about you! you both need to be on the same page!!
2006-10-14 17:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by maddog1968 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love him so if he wants to, go for it. For all you know this may be his first sep to something bigger
2006-10-14 19:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall to it. Follow the Bible. Please don't surrender to such things. I have had a friend who was gay but he has overcome and is still overcoming with the help of Christ. Though temptation may be overwhelming, do not fail God.
2006-10-14 17:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by †ServantofGod† 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i guess if u feel that way go as far as hell let u
2006-10-14 17:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by joeycd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slow down, no need to be rush, ok? so you'll know
2006-10-14 17:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋