okay so she likes this boy who is like 10 years older than her. she's 14. im 15. he's like 24. she's been talking to him for 3 months and she claims she's "in love". i seriously doubt she is. all she talks about is him and she's driving me nuts. i dont even like the guy. he looks like a crackhead and stuff. i dont think they've had sex yet, but they could because she told me that he asked her about it. i dont like her hanging with this guy. what do i tell her cuz ive told her not to hang out with him and she's just getting mad at me. how do i help her to stop talking to him. wat if he tries to rape her?
2006-10-14 17:00:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
okay...like all of u said...IM BOUT TO CALL!!! *im so nervous*
2006-10-14 17:14:52 · update #1
YOU NEED TO TELL HER MOM AND DAD RIGHT NOW DONT WAIT> CALL NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YES I MEAN RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! YES RIGHT NOW
2006-10-14 17:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This 'man' is what is known as a pedafile...he likes to have sex with children. At 14 that is what you're friend is, and she is in a scary situation. Because he is an adult and she is a child, their relations would be known as molestation, not a relationship. You absolutely have to tell her parents, no matter how mad she will get. I promise she will come back around and realize you are looking out for her, and in years you'll laugh about what a fool she was to even think of hanging out with this jerk. If you don't tell you may lose her anway, but it won't be temporary. Do the right thing.
2006-10-15 00:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by qamberq 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question I have is where the hell are her parents? This is a situation that should never continue. As her friend, you have to tell her parents. This man, is definitely a predator. Your girlfriend has every chance of being killed or hurt horribly. Please do something. A man 25 going after a 14 year old girl, well i'm sorry, but it seems a bit perverted. Get her the hell out. This is statutory rape. Please go to the authorities before something horrible happens. That is the problem with young girls, too trusting. Think about it, what the hell does a 25 year old want with a 14 year old? Scary. Please get help for her.
2006-10-15 00:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question I have is where the hell are her parents? This is a situation that should never continue. As her friend, you have to tell her parents. This man, is definitely a predator. Your girlfriend has every chance of being raped or killed or maybe even hurt very badly!. Please do something!!!!! A man 25 going after a 14 year old girl,but it seems a bit perverted. This is statutory rape. Please go to the authorities before something horrible happens. That is the problem with young girls, too trusting. What the hell does a 25 year old want with a 14 year old? That is very scary and rude! Please get help for her.
2006-10-15 10:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by **Steelers_Fan_86** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends stick together as much as you may feel like a" tattletale" you may have saved her life forever one day she will come to her senses and thank God for having a concerned friend like you. She is already head over heels it sounds like so just do your best to suck it up don't mention him (which im sure you don't) Telling her parents is not only good for her but they will know what a great friend you are and will urge her to realize what a great person you really are. If it helps say you saw him with another girl at the mall or something
Good Luck!
2006-10-15 01:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do for her (even if she gets a little pissed ) is tell her parents before something really bad happens to her
there is no reason a 24 year old man would be interested in a 14 or 15 year old girl other than take advantage of her ... you would be the best friend you could ever be by telling her parents ..she will be mad at you for a while but she will come around ........go do it now please
2006-10-15 00:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick to your feelings, if you have a gut feeling about how creepy this guy is you are probably right.
Talk to your friends parents or your own. This girl will probably get mad at you, but at least she still be around.
What this guy is doing is wrong! He has no business being with a 14 year old.
2006-10-15 07:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa there! Tell her parents at once!No matter how mad she gets, you would truely be doing what is best for her to make sure she doesnt get hurt. 14 is not anyage for a 24 yr old sicko to be going after. A man like that, is refered to as a pedofile.
2006-10-15 00:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing a best friend could do is to let her know how you feel about it and not push anymore if you do she may never forgive you. I would tell her exactly what you think and then she what she says the bad part is at that age she would be more likely to choose him but try to understand she thinks he is the greatest he is older probably has a job and a car. Just be there for her.
2006-10-15 00:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by apples2oo4 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You really need to talk to her parents,and if you don't feel comfortable talking to her parents,talk to your own about it,and they can talk to your friends parents.When it all comes out,you friend might be a little upset with you,but she will come around and realise that you had her best interests at heart.I hope it all works out for you.
2006-10-15 21:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would tell your parents. Tell them you are concerned for her safety and you want their help. If they are willing to call her parents for you that is great. It will be very helpful. However, if you don't feel you can talk to your parents then her's HAVE to know. You are right, she could be in danger.
2006-10-15 01:48:06 · answer #11 · answered by TheresaE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋