I am 16 and I have been dating my boyfriend 4 6 months and n the beginning we had a lot to say but now we dont have ne thing 2 talk about ne more
2006-10-14 16:59:58 · 14 answers · asked by Almir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweet nothings!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 17:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had sex?
What I've learned is that as soon as you start being intimate, the communication stops and every get together is just so someone can have sex.
That is not anything to build a relationship on.
Focus on school and growing and getting ready for a great life. Don't think about a boyfriend until you're at least 19. Learn to take care of yourself and like who you are when you're not with a man, don't get your self worth on if you're in a relationship or not.
2006-10-15 00:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by megmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is common for a realtionship to ebb and flow.however if the two of you cant find something in common to talk about then there may be some other issues going on here.
Do you strike up conversations or wait for him. do you discuss current events, or things you see in the news or papers? If you have run out of topics... Read! If you ask him questions and he doesnt answer...then something else is going on. A healthy relationship should include good communication, Quiet times are ok to...but you just dont hang with someone for hours and not talk.
2006-10-15 00:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by irishladsj1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16, date around. There is no reason for someone at your age to be tied to anyone for a long period of time. But if you don't want to end it, think of things you have in common to talk about, or ask him about things he's interested in and even if you're not interested in it, act as though you are, it will make him feel good and maybe he'll start asking questions about you and your interest.
2006-10-15 00:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by ThatsNachocheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go to other places and do something crazy that u can both laugh about ,,...
or just smile at him and look on his face and just tell him how cute his eyes is,..
and ask him some questions like,.
what do u want to do,..
or get funny,..
or sing for him that u should sound bad so u can make fun of the boring time and ask question any thing
try to think of the things that u want to know about him
and or u can tell him things about ur self that u want him to know about u
just like,... hahah i hope my craziness can help u a bit.
2006-10-15 00:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain this to your bf, conversation is the best thing in a relationship, if u cant speak to eachother about anything, most likely hes speaking to someone else! (fact)
2006-10-15 00:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is what normally happends you need to spend a few days apart even maybe a week.then at the end of the week when you get together then you will have something to talk about.
2006-10-15 00:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on long walks. Climb rocks. Do things together. Like go on river trips in canoe.
2006-10-15 00:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dance!
2006-10-15 00:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find interests to talk about
2006-10-15 00:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's run out of things to say to you and you've run out of things to say to him, this has possibly run it's natural course. It may be time to move on.
2006-10-15 00:01:53 · answer #11 · answered by plebeian777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋