if your married or in a relationship,do any of you check out any other guys or women?
2006-10-14 16:52:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in a relationship and it is normal to look at the opposite sex.I don't go past looking. I don't mind if my boyfriend looks at other women as lomg as it doesn't go beyond that.
2006-10-14 17:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK the rule is that you can look but don't touch that is where the term eye candy comes in handy but before you do that you need talk to your partner about it first and get an understanding of where the two of you stand because some couples are more open than others.
2006-10-15 01:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by leespitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it's a perfectly normal thing to do, for both men and women. Just because I'm on a diet, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu - just as long as I don't order anything!
2006-10-14 23:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by simone 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We're married, not dead. Of course we look, but the important thing is...we don't touch. A little innocent flirting is healthy, but not in front of your spouse, that's deadly. Ha Ha
2006-10-15 00:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all do at some point!! I think it's perfectly normal as long as you just glance at the person. When my husband and I go out I glance at a handsome guy and I know my husband glance at a pretty lady. It's o.k. as long as you trust one another and most importantly have confidence in yourself.
2006-10-14 23:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I'm in love. I don't notice anyone else. I actually used to watch my husband to see if his eyes wandered, and they don't either. But that's us - not everyone is that way. I think that others are not truly in love if they look elsewhere, but it's not the case, according to my friends. It's just a difference in people.
If you like to look, be sure you aren't with someone that judges that as betrayal.
2006-10-14 23:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course! I check out guys and girls (I'm bi) all the time. My husband checks out girls as well. Sometimes we even talk about hot girls. It's perfectly normal. Look, just don't touch.
2006-10-15 00:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, I still have eyes and the fish are still sexy. I only have love eyes for my sweetheart though...14 years and happy as clams. :)
We actually check out people together, it's still fun to see what attracts us.
2006-10-15 00:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's human nature.
2006-10-15 00:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I check out both!
2006-10-14 23:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dondi P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋