what should i do?

Question

ok he always tell me he loves an we have our bad times and good but everyone telling me to leave him an that im dum for staying with him i swear its like one day its gone work for us but that one day isnt coming soon enough i cry almost evry night thinking about what i should do because i dont want to be hurt and i dont want him to hurt but i have this gut feeling he is cheating and i dont know what to do i need some real advive not that silly stuff.

Answer 1

If you don't trust him then why be with him. I was going through the same thing but I had no reason to not trust him I think you should tell him how you feel.

Two Major Keys to a Good Relationship
*Trust
*Communication
Good Luck!

Answer 2

I thought this when I was dating someone. I really loved him and he loved me. The key is trust. Try a couple of the following; talk with him one on one (they don't have to be anything regarding relationships in particular) just socialize it will allow you to share and read him through his answers. Then try asking questions...depending on how comfortable you are after conversing try simple questions...then ask some that you already know the answers to. If he lies watch the way he reacts (blinking, looking away, trying to change the subject, etc.) When you are really hurting due to the constant thinking ask the ultimate question..this may feel like it is the hardest thing to do but his answer will resolve a lot of your worries.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

you can never be happy in a relationship is you cant trust your partner. they should be the one person you trust no matter what. as hard as it may be you might have to end it. the whole point of being with someone is cos you are supposed to feel better with them then when you were alone. dont forget that.