me and my boyfriend broke up 3 days ago. i dont love him anymore oly as a friend. i want to know if he still wants to be my friend but everytime i call him he is not home or busy and he already got a girlfriend and i got asked out by his friend but i said no. how can i convince him to still be my friend???
2006-10-14 16:27:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know you want to be friends,but once you break up you really can't be friends.I don't know why but thats the way it is .So I say don't try to call now he is moving on and you should too.Also it is really not cool to date one of his friends probably ever. Move on you'll be fine.
2006-10-14 16:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Pickels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl if y'all broke up 3 days ago and he already got a girlfriend do you think he really wanted you. Open ya eyes anybody that loves someone ain't just gone go out and get another girlfriend just like that cause it wouldn't be ova you yet. And as for you going wit his friend that would definitely make him not want to be your friend cause that's trifling.
2006-10-14 16:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by shanee2514 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the break up.Alot of people dont believe in that friends deal but if he's already got a girlfriend then he didnt waist anytime moving on so he should actually have a problem with being your friend.I would giv ehim time everything sounds realyy fresh so give him some time and let him know that you value him friendship and you'd really like to continue a friendship with him.
2006-10-14 16:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give it time. Guys hate being asked to still be friend. They see that as the ultimate slap in the face. Good luck.
2006-10-14 16:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you take a hint? He is telling you to go away and leave him alone. I know it's irking but you have no choice. Write the whole episode off as life experience and find someone else who can like and love you.
2006-10-14 16:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be friends until you both have moved onto new relationships that aren't just rebounds. Only time can fix this.
Yes, you may miss him--but you're going to have to live without him for awhile until you both have closure.
2006-10-14 16:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Go to his house and ask him to go both to a restaurant or some other place, and have a nice conversation about u 2.
2006-10-14 16:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by R B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a party or somewhere that u kno he will be there and start talking about his fav things then talk how u think u still should be Friends but his gf should not be around
2006-10-14 16:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by cutiexpie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with his friend. Not sure if you can convince someone to be your friend or not.
2006-10-14 16:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago, after i broke up with him he was very upset and ignored me... but i told him that i just wanted to be friends that i felt closer to him when we were friends
2006-10-14 16:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋