well i have a big issue i been with my boyfriend for 9 months?

Question

the last few weeks have been a living hell for the both of us but just tonight i said something that i think is going to ruin our relationship we been through so much an i could never figure out why i held on to this relationship so long but i love him to deaf but the thing is i think he is cheating on me what should i do.

Answer 1

First you need know wether or not he is really cheating on you. These are the classic signs.1He disappears for days and you don't know where he is or what he is doing and when you do see him he won't tell you.2He has mentioned girls that you don't know.3If he has a phone and there is numbers on there that you have never seen before then you should call them when he isn't around found out who it is.4He seems to be pushing away from you and growing apart from you and acts like he's not interested in you anymore. The most important thing to remember is you have to be sure that they are cheating try to catch them in the act, because if there not cheating and just need some space and time to think things through then you could be making a really big mistake if you break up with the person just on suspicions because suspicions aren't hardly ever right. It's usually just nerves because your relationship is at a time were things are slowing down just remember slowing things down aren't always a bad thing.

Answer 2

All I can tell you is that if you are feeling it, you are probably right. Until he can come up with some concrete evidence you will always be wondering.

Answer 3

Dump his a$$. Never keep a cheater.

Answer 4

dump him..find someone else..he isnt good enough for you..and hje doesnt care about you enough if hes cheating

Answer 5

Leave!!!!