ok evey time i talk to my boyfriend on the phone and he has friends over i all ways try to talk to him but he allways busy talkin to his friends i ask him what he did today and he dident anwer me and he started talking to his friend this is makeing me mad should i tell him about it??? or should i be so upset about this or am i over reacting?
2006-10-14 15:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by sweetsuger241 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
geez he is so disrespectful.....tell him straight that his rudeness upsets you.
2006-10-14 15:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Sounds like your guy doesn't like idle chatter over the phone. Only phone him if you need to tell him something important. Save the chit chat for the times you spend together.
2006-10-14 16:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that if you call and he's with his friends, to let him talk to them in peace. He will not want his friends to feel that you are bugging him. They will want to know why you can't talk to him when they are not with him and think that you always call when he's with them.
Yes, you are over-reacting, unless he's with his friends whenever he's free and has no time for you! If that's the case, don't treat him as a b/f.
2006-10-14 16:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey if you really love him at this point you should tell him how it makes you feel, or try not talking to him as much when they are around, maybe you should say to him, babe call me when you are done talking to your friends, because I don't want to interupt you when you are talking to them, kinda get him where it hurts, because it is rude to talk to one on the phone and one in person, and not to mention certainly not fair to you at all.
Good luck honey all the best to you and him....
2006-10-14 15:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by shero67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first about it , he might not realized what he's doing. If he still continues, do the same...talk to your friends or pretend you have people with you , and talk to them....He might become more aware of his behaviour and how upseting it can be...If he still doesn't change, you have all the right to be upset...just hang up on him....
2006-10-14 15:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude to be on the phone when you're entertaining people in your house. He should call you back when his friends are gone. That way he can hear everything you have to say and there aren't any interruptions.
2006-10-14 15:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just being a guy, ive been married for about 6 yrs and when i talk to my friends on the phone i still do it sometimes, some guys just cant multi task for anything. have him call you when his friends arent over
2006-10-14 15:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very upset becasue he is ashamed of you. If he can't talk to you in front of his friends then he is not worth your time, so let him know what's on your mind
2006-10-14 15:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are overreacting. Cool your jets, release the flaps, lower the landing gear, and just relax. Your time with him alone will cumm soon enough.
2006-10-14 15:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call him for a few days. then he'll come crying like a littlt girl. really, do it, time to be a women.
2006-10-14 15:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM I THINK THAT YOU CARE MORE ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS THAN ME AND I THINK YOU DONT CARE ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP AND JUST BE LIKE I REALLY WANT TO BE WITH YOU BUT IF YOU ARENT GOING TO CARE ABOUT THIS REALTIONSHIP WE CANT TAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL
2006-10-14 15:53:43 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋