Well I hate cheerleaders... and I have no friends should I change myself and become one for friends??? or should I just well be myself and be lonley... everyone thinks i have a crush on a really close guy friend of mine cause i always talk to him so i want more friends that are girls... but I can't cause I'm a geek... and I have no friends... should I change myself and become a cheerleader for friends or just be myself and try some more???
2006-10-14 15:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by maziejane333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't change yourself for anyone. There are many people who are going to give you thoughts of tryng to change. Many will try to change you. However, remember that peple will change you and then just leave you stranded. If you change into someone who isn't really you...you'll get yourself into a lot of trouble as well as be disappointed with yourself when the total outcome lays before you. If you need a friend, I'm here for you...feel free to email me at lilyellowstar@gmail.com. It's what I use to answer questions that have to do with getting advice. Yeap. ANd remember there's nothing wrong with having just one friend because trust me...if that friend is a true one...you're lucky because so many of us live today-being friends with people who don't even truly like us, who talk behind our backs, who just use us and I say, if you know that this guy friend of yours really is a good friend...comeon...forget about all those rumors and garbage talks. They just want to confuse you. Follow your heart. Trust me..I only have one REAL friend and all the rest are fakes and I would never give my friend up just because of some things that people say or some rumors that go around. Keep your guy friend...don't let him go and truthfully, I'd say don't try being someones friend...just be yourself and be friendly...don't try to impress because true friendship lies within the truth and with you trying to impress, the wrong you is coming out. Anyways, just take care and keep your guy friend. Don't worry about the cheerleaders...just worry about being yourself and being a good friend to your guy friend...and being a good person overall. Take care!
2006-10-14 16:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, lol,I hate cheeleaders too.Annoying creatures aren't they. No, definitely don't change yourself to make more friends unless of course you absolutely love cheerleading which I suspect that you don't. I try to tell kids all the time. Hghschool is just this very short 4 year period of time that in 20 years from now you'll see wasn't really worth all the fuss and attention that you gave it.Your real life begins when highschool is finally over but I know that bit of info isn't much comfort now. The best thing to do is to make new friends at highschool is to join some clubs after school. there's gotta be something that you're interested in there. if there isn't then go do some activites outside of school like take a martial arts class or learn how to play an instrument. Anything even an art class. Just do SOMETHING that you think you might enjoy and maybe make some new friends doing.Every city has has a YMCA or a recreation department that people can take classes at. Don't just focus all your energy on the people that you go to school with. Ok?if people don't want to spend the time getting to know you then you make the effort and go talk to some shy people instead.Don't you know how much that would mean to someone else who's as shy or even more shy than you? They'd love it! Good luck.
2006-10-14 16:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are who you are, never try to be something you're not. The people who are going to like you, will like you regardless. Changing who you are will not make people like you, they might pretend to like you, but who wants to be around phonies and fakes.
Be real and be true, BE YOU.
Sometimes having females for friends can do more harm then good. Take that from someone who has been burnt so many times, by females that were suppose to be my friends. I've found myself trusting more in males then females. Friends don't always have to be from the same sex you are. You are not a geek, you are you.
2006-10-14 16:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!! Just be your-self. If someone doesn't like you for who you are than their not worth your time. Maybe your just being a little shy. You have to talk to people if you want them to be your freind. Try to find something in common with with a girl and gradually get to know her and become freinds!!! Good luck Honey!!!! And I'm sure your not as big of a geek as you think you are. I'm sure your really awesome!!!!
2006-10-14 16:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't change yourself for anyone. Just be yourself and start talking to more people. I'm sure there are a lot of people that will be your friend if you only give them a chance to get to know you .
2006-10-14 15:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
absolutely do not change yourself..you would be more unhappy than you are now..join the honor roll society, the year book staff, the group that plans your class homecoming float, the drama class, any other club that you might find interesting..go for it..high school should be fun and part of having fun is up to you.
2006-10-14 16:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u rellie want firends then go for it but it wont make u happy u should always be urslef and if u werent yaself round epople hu though were ya friends then u would never know if they were ya real friends
2006-10-14 16:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't change yourslef babe b/c thats no good lol just try alittle harder ppl will like you as who you are b/c if you become a cherleader that won't bhe you and ppl will like you for something that your not but if your self ppl will love you as who you are!GEEKS are awesome don't put yourslef down have confidence and talk to ppl[be nice]
--cynthia--
2006-10-14 16:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself.You do not want to be someone who is not you. If you do, one day you'll wake up and say, what am I doing? and why was I so stupid!! The right people will come to you eventually.Learn to trust your own judgements.Just enjoy being YOU.
2006-10-14 16:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by hopeful 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are yours self then friends will come if you act like you not any one else
2006-10-14 17:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by vicvic345890 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋