lastnight i was with a guy..and he slowly kept trying to put it in me but it hurt very very badly so he kept taking it out and trying again..and im not sure if he broke the hymen or not..im betting that he didnt because i did not bleed or anything like that..if he didnt break the hymen..but he still tryed..does that mean im still a virgin or not?
2006-10-14 15:42:53 · 22 answers · asked by xodancingdivaxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry it had to be like that your first time. Losing your virginity is defined as any type of physical penetration. Even though you did not "pop the cherry" it was still considered sex. Just be safe and talk about it so that you are comfortable in the future. Although there is a rare percentage of women who suffer from vaginismus, you can check it out at vaginismus.com
Good luck!!!
2006-10-14 15:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kinda.. I'd say you are still a virgin as 'nothing' happened. But you did have that specific contact, so depends on whose church you come out of!
It doesn't matter of the hymen/cherry was broken or not. It can be broken way before, if you ever fell off your bike when you were younger or whatever.
I think you still are a virgin.
2006-10-14 15:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably no longer a virgin. it doesn't have to bleed if a hymen is broken. sometimes a hymen could break on it's own... it's just an old wives tale that a hymen has to break to prove that you are a virgin.
2006-10-14 15:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by dd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he came in u then ur not a virgin if he just put it in but did not ejaculate ur still a virgin. Some woman dont bleed when loosing their virginity cause some woman dont have a hymen.
2006-10-14 15:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not everyone bleeds when they lose their virginity and that all depends on how active you are (typically sports).
Reading your story, technically, youre not a virgin anymore.
2006-10-14 17:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by drummer.luver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you didn't bleed doesn't mean you're still a virgin! Some people don't bleed their first time (I didn't). As long as there's penetration, it's considered intercourse. YOU ARE OFFICIALLY DEVIRGINIZED!!! Congratulations! I hope he was using a condom.
2006-10-14 15:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? If you're looking to be sexually active, then I wouldn't think it matters if you are or not. The only time it might matter is if you're saving yourself for marriage or the right person or whatever.
2006-10-14 15:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by robtheman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have your hymen, you are a virgin. Since you did not bleed, I would say you still have it.
2006-10-14 15:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he didn't break it than technically you are still a virgin.
2006-10-14 16:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't always have to bleed the first time you have sex, some people don't.
2006-10-14 15:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by missmetro_jl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋