I have my friends from last year, and my friends from this year, and they hate each other. Im having my birthday pary, but if I don't invite all of my friends they'll hate me. And if I invite them all they'll fight. What should I do?
2006-10-14 15:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you decide 2 have the party...invite all your friends that you want to be at your party...keep your fingers cross that they all well respect your party and not fight...any1 that does not respect your party is not much of a friend...
2006-10-14 15:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by GyVuPhaYs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are all your friends. Invite everybody and they'll get along better than you think ... unless you're a big city gang banger and they are bitter rivals, but, I doubt that.
Seriously, if you ever called them friends invite them and have the party ... most will get along ... the ones that don't are not your friends.
With love,
Jonnie
2006-10-14 15:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jonnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to choose between your friends. If you get along with all of them continue to be friends without taking sides. Don't invite any of them to your party that don't get along. Invite the people that do. If they still want to be your friend after this, tell them why. Tell them that you value all of your friendships.
2006-10-14 15:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all if its your birthday and they are both your friends you would think they would have enough respect to let you enjoy your party without their little look at me im it no look at me im it but unfortunatly we cant all be like that hahaha, you can invite them both and tell them both the other will be there and they can come if they want but you dont want no look at me thing going on at your party,,,,good luck and happy birthday...
2006-10-14 15:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have 2 parties.
2006-10-14 15:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-19 10:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they both claim to be your friend then they should be able to be civil with each other especially on your birthday. i had the same situation with 2 of my friends, and they didn't like each other. and i told both of them that i am not going to chose so they can either be civil with each other or just stop putting me in the middle. sadly one friend decided not to be my friend, so it shows who's a true friend
2006-10-14 15:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry about it. that is the same way my friends are. i also had the same problem. you should invite all of your friends because having one friends isnt worth losing a friendship. if they fight you should tell them to work it out and that way you can all be friends.
2006-10-14 15:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Spazi Savi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Figure out which ones are really your friends,and invite them.
2006-10-14 15:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a party just with just your family on your birthday, then celebrate with different groups of friends on different days.
2006-10-14 15:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by *azure* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋