Im pregnant and I am not with the babys father. There is a guy I know that has been trying to get me into bed. And I really want to. But I still feel some obligation to my babys father. Is that weird?
2006-10-14 14:52:39 · 15 answers · asked by I love my baby boy!! 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You've got a lot on your plate right now. I would take it easy and one day at a time. If this new guy cares for you, he'll wait till you're ready...which you definitely do not appear to be right now. Good luck!
2006-10-14 14:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by WonderingWanderer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like she said, it sounds like you have feelings for him still. I don't think it is weird, considering your hormones and all. Look all I can say is do not do it, if you don't think it is right, or if you do not want to. Your not obligated to the baby's father either. If you two are not together, then I don't see any kind of problem with that. As long as your safe about it, use protection.
2006-10-14 21:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by LaAlicia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U dont know it but u feel for your babys father still. Me and my boyfriend/babys father were together for a while, we split up for 1 1/2 yrs and i wanted to date but didnt have the heart to do it, and then I realised I still loved him, we got back togetehr and had a second baby. Look deep inside and see if u really do care for him. If so then let him know and go from there. There is nothing better than to have your own family..Good Luck!!!
2006-10-14 22:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still have feelings for the father, but if you decide to sleep with this other guy. Make sure you use protection cause you don't want your baby to get an STD.
2006-10-14 23:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by dawn27055 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not say how far along..or if you had actually married,,sorry..i kind of think that you just may have hot pants..our hormones go crazy..make you ..horney...but beleive me...there are other ways...to releive.the worse thing you can do is develope an infection..could harm your baby big time..you did not say why you felt an obligation...or if you still love the soon to be daddy..personally..i could not be intimate unless i truly felt that i loved them..think about the new little life yall have created..for the real truth if you should or not...what would jesus tell ya
2006-10-14 22:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by clcschiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get your baby's father to the alter. So concentrate on your baby's future instead of your own selfishness. You've already fallen pray to your sexual misdeeds, so don't compound them by running off the guy who can prove to be an excellent father to your precious child and a loving husband. Screw around and you'll find yourself rearing your child alone and wondering what happened. Besides, for the sake of the respect your child/adult will hold for you two, it's time to commit before it is born.
2006-10-14 22:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're going to complicate your life even further. Have your baby and get back into things before becoming involved with someone else. There are waaay too many emotional issues going on now. You're not thinking clearly.
2006-10-14 22:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother used to say there is no harm putting gas in a tank that is already full.
Be careful this new guy is not just taking advantage of you.
It is completely normal to feel that devotion to your babies father. You should listen to it.
2006-10-14 22:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best way to resolve this is:
if ur babys father is at home, invite your friend home for dinner or whatever, and have a threesome.
or if ur babys father is away, do whatever u want with ur friend, and inform babys father when he is home.
or apply any other iidea, this is from my side(dont take 'em seriously. jus tryin' to joke) hehe
2006-10-14 22:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by saeed_yacoob 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sounds like you might still have feelings for the other guy.
2006-10-14 21:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by dolly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋