Why do certain people that it is wrong for me being 22 years old and dating a 50 year old woman?

Question

I love older women because they can show me true love and are always there when you need to talk and are true friends.

Answer 1

bcuz some ppl dont understand age doesnt count.

Answer 2

I don't know if its wrong. It is kinda wierd though. I'm 51; some people would frown on it but a lot would admire or envy me for dating a 21 year old woman. Personally, I think that would be fine. Its a double standard. The only thing is there are issues with that kind of an age difference. Physically, a person in there 50's can't move as fast or as flexibly as a person in there 20's. A person in thier 50's doesn't have the same level of hormones as a person in thier 20's. Your body is tight when you're in your 20's; gravity takes effect on you by the time you're 50; you tend to be wrinkly and gray. Mentally, you learn a few things between 21 and 51. There are cultural differnces. But the truth is .. the differences are really not that great. If you are having a great time; more power to you!

Answer 3

I think Katherine has a good answer, but given modern society's attitudes, it's a matter of morals. Where are your morals, and where are your friend's morals? In essence, there should be nothing wrong in your relationship given that you are both consenting adults, and therefore should be allowed to enjoy each other's company. Even though we live in very liberal times, there are still certain taboos in place. For instance, have you given thought to the fact that the woman you profess to love, is old enough to be your mother? More to the point, has she given thought to having a relationship with a young man who might as well be her son? These are the questions that might be in the mind of not only your immediate family, but also your friends and her family, who could make the situation very uncomfortable for both of you.
Think very carefully about your situation. She may well want you to father her children, but when they are 18 years old, she will be 69 years old and might not be in the position of giving them the love they deserve. As an experienced woman, she may well be able to show true love; she's been around a little more than twice your years. I would advise some degree of restraint for both your sakes. On your own be it!!

Answer 4

I myself for find it a bit weird dating some one with that big of an age gap,as when I was 22,my parents were still in their early 40's,and if i had of dated some one in their 50's while I was 22,I would have felt like I was with my grandparents.But if you truly don't see,or feel that there is nothing wrong with it,well that's all that matters,but other people think,shouldn't both you at all.

Answer 5

No i don't think of so, i'm 21 happening 22 and my important different (we have not been jointly long) is 40 3 . we've widely used one yet another a pair of 365 days before relationship. grew to alter into close friends before Desiding to this point. Age is in basic terms a selection and screw people who're attempting to hold you down

Answer 6

Because you make huge generalizations. It is fine to date women of any age (18+) but once you start talking about how you only love older women, you sound crazy!!

Answer 7

You are a Boy Toy... Enjoy it while it lasts... As long as you are of legal age... enjoy the experience... She will teach you how to please a woman but don't think that it is love... She is using you to make herself feel younger. Besides you really don't want to fall "in love" with her (unless, of course, she is filthy rich)... She may look good now at 50 but as people age it gets harder and harder to keep a youthful appearance. Are you ready to change her diaper when you are in your 40's?

Answer 8

50 years old is getting up there go for mid 30's

Answer 9

Well, if it's working - it's working and I bet she's really happy! But I wonder if you'll still be that interested in another 10 or 12 years, hell I wonder if you'll still be that interested in another 1 to 2 years!

Answer 10

omg i'm srry buy y a 50 year old women!? oh well its ur taste lol in my personal opinion i wouldn't date some1 much older than me but oh well u decide what u want 2 do w/ ur life right? ok good luck w/ this women....cya

Answer 11

I don't think it's wrong, but it is kinda gross. Why not experience true love with somebody that can grow with you? You obviously just haven't met the right person yet.