my girlfiriends period is late for a couple of days,and she doesent realy feel pre menstrual symptoms,just that her boobs got a little bigger and they are sensitive.10hours ago we did a pregnancy test and it was negative,but i wanna be sure:what sympthoms can occur at this time?
we had sex on 27,30sept and7,8 oct,without ejaculating in her.i ejaculated on her tummy and then i cleaned my tool with tp,is it ok?
one time i cumed little outside,and then i got inside without cleaning.
is it true that abortion can be made at this time(if she s pregnad,I HOPE NOT!!) with some pills?where can i get them from?
thank u,and pls answer
2006-10-14 14:12:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy_h 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
She MIGHT be pregnant. IT IS TOTALLY POSSIBLE to get pregnant when the male pulls out before ejaculation, because during sex the penis emits a fluid called pre-*** that also contains sperm. If you ejaculated outside her body and that semen came into contact with her vagina (via fingers, tongue, tissue, etc) she could also get pregnant that way. The sex you had in late September was during her most fertile time, so it was VERY risky of you to not use a condom and/or the Pill.
Your local family planning or sexual health clinic can help you out. They can do a pregnancy test and if she is pregnant you can discuss your options. Your choices include raising the child, adoption and abortion. One method of abortion is, yes, administered by pill. There are definite risks to the woman when this method is selected, however. Check the link below to find a Planned Parenthood near you.
2006-10-14 14:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may or may not be pregnant because it is early on. Since you are not using protection- a wildly bad idea!- there is certainly that possibility. Withdrawal is nearly useless for birth control and it's foolish for taking the risk of disease as well. Condoms are cheap and eveb free from some clinics so there is no excuse not to use them
Even if you think you withdrew in time, there is a discharge before orgasm called pre-ejaculate that contains sperm and is sufficient for pregnancy.
This early, if she really is pregnant, medical termination is possible with several different types of oral or vaginal medications. However, it's HER decision what happens if she is pregnant and you are just going to have to live with it. Your choices ended when you decided to have unsafe sex.
These drugs require medical supervision and you can't get them any legal way. (Trying to give them to her is without her knowledge or consent would be assault and in some states a fetal homicid that could get you life in prison or even the death penalty if she were harmed.) The time window for this, called "medical abortion" is fairly short, so she needs to see a doctor as soon as possible if she is pregnant and does not want to continue the pregnancy.
Planned Parenthood can provide low cost help with testing and decision making. Please don't believe the ignorant liars who want to force pregnancies because they are honest, offer all options and are medically skilled. Local women's clinics can help also, but call first and ask if they offer termination. If the answer is "no" they are fake clinics run by those who do not believe in a woman;s right to choose for herself.
A blood test would be more acurate to detect a pregnancy this early than the urine tests, but you may want to try another test in a few days. To be most accurate, she should take the test using the first urine she makes in the morning after waking. It is more concentrated and has more hormone.
Tender breasts can be premenstrual and they can be a sign of early pregnancy. Until she is sure, she should avoid alcohol, tobacco and other drugs to prevent the risk of harm should she continue the pregnancy. And she gets to decide that, so you might want to consider both how you plan to support a child for the next twenty years or so, and if you are lucky this time, you need to consider using real birth control if you are going to have real sex. You show total disrespect for your girl friend and your self by continuing to be irresponsible.
There's some good information on this website and I strongly suggest you read it:
http://www.scarleteen.com
2006-10-14 14:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all a couple days late is not time to panic! Secondly if she is pregnant...DO NOT MURDER IT!!! Stick it out, you will be happy you did! And you can still get someone pregnant with something called pre-ejaculation....it is the little cleansing solution that emits from the penis when you first get it inside. My final comment is if you are not ready for a baby, DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!
2006-10-14 14:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by LadyL 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even though you didnt cu.m in her, there is still the risk of pre-cu.m. Her symptoms are signs of early pregnancy, and some pregnancy tests can fail; better get it comfirm by a doctor instead.
And yes, there is a pill that can abort the pregnancy within the first 7 weeks.
2006-10-14 14:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i hope to hell shes pregnant and she keeps it then goes after you for child support, if she doesnt the law will anyway.... grow up and quit having sex until your married dummy.... but now that you might be a dad this will help you grow up but your freedom is gone along with every other privledge a teenager has.... forget going out with your buddies on a friday or saturday night.....
2006-10-14 14:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by shortyonwheelz2005 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
she could be pregnant but you have to wait another week or so. to be sure, you shouldnt make her get an abortion in my own opinion.
2006-10-14 14:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋