o god please help please! this is not anything to do with drama?

Question

I am 12 years old,and before you start to ridicule me about how many other people there is just please i ask read this carefully and give me the best advise possible.so theres this guy kyler and i've known him for about 7 months now,i was just randomely looking through myspace and suddenly came across this page,like at first i thought he was nerdy but seemed pretty nice so i imed him and we started talking,then one day he asked me if i wanted to
c-br,i said no at first and went along with it for 3 months like,i would talk to him every 1 to 2 days,and one day my (not) sister that is only my brothers sister we found on a site that had people that had been adopted out at birth told me that''he could be a murderer or something.that was my 1st instincts and i was like are u some kind of killer and hes like no duh thats ******* sick and that day i learned my mistake,he is really 15 though because all of his friends are saying things all over his myspace.and yea we didnt talk for about 3 mont

nths and now its worse he wont readd me and he blocked me.and i dont even know why in the first place he deletred me but idk im working on it and i need advice

oh yea and after the first fight we didnt talk then we talked and thats when he pulled his bro ****....and disadded me cuz on acccident stupid me sent 4 messages

he had said i talked to his bro alie! cuz he is really1 5 and duh no 10 year old knows that ****

i know im in love with him,and i cant let go ive been trying for months! maybe it was meant to be real? idk im going to see him in about 2 or 3 years because most likely ""i will'' be famous

and if you want to help talk to me personally im me brownxeyedxpoetx on aim.

Answer 1

You need to be extremely careful on the internet.
There are a lot of people who aren't who and what they say they are. Many are old men, child predators, looking for young, naive children to prey upon.

Why at 12 yrs old would you agree to talk "sex" with a stranger?

When he asked, that should have been your first clue to RUN FAST and never speak to him again. Have more self respect than that. If he said he wouldn't talk to you anymore if you didn't, GOOD for you...you don't and shouldn't talk to boys like that.

Do you really think that just because you asked him if he was an axe murderer that he would tell you the truth? Think about it...

"Hi, are you an axe murderer?"
"Ha Ha, no not me!" as he sharpens his axe, gains more information about how to find you and gains your trust in him.
Being an axe murderer isn't what you should be worrying about, but child molestors are!!!

You are a perfect example of why children should not be allowed to surf the internet unsupervised.

Don't talk to this boy ever again and DON'T talk to ANYONE that mentions sex. If it happens again, tell your mom or dad.

Answer 2

What the F*** are you talking about?

Look, what are you doing going on myspace and meeting guys? You're 12! Your parents should kick your asss for that. You have pathetically bad parents for letting their 12 year old child surf the web and fall in love with random freaks.

Realize what myspace is. It's a place for people to post meaningless crap about themselves and keep in touch with other people. The reason 12 year old children should not be allowed to screw with myspace is because they think it's reality and they fall in love with a fantasy that will eventually hurt them. Turn off the damn computer, go to the mall with your friends and hook up with 12 year old pimple-faced geeks in person, like normal kids. That's what life at 12 is all about, not some cybercrap that is ONLY going to hurt you.

That's my advice - ignore it if you want, it's entirely your choice since your parents apparently could care less.

Answer 3

The difference between 12 and 15 is pretty huge - its usually either side
of puberty. Moreover, it appears as if he lied to you.

Contrary to Nightline, 20/20, Dateline, etc, the vast vast majority of people
on MySpace are at least approximately who they say they are (though people
don't generally tell the truth about personal beauty, weight, etc.).

However, you should assume that any contact not PROVEN innocent is
guilty because the bad guys on that site can be really ... bad. Rapists,
thieves, Republicans. You name it.

No relationship carried over completely on Myspace is completely real.
The highs and lows you get from it are pretty misleading. I suggest that
you probably want to establish some flesh-and-blood friends in the real
world to give you some perspective on this person.

Answer 4

you have to be careful all the time on line as to who your talking to, BUT if you have asked the guy if he is a killer how would you expect him to act, no wonder he blocked you, you could say your sorry & tell him your friend put you up to it, BUT DO NOT get to involved at your age your too young, stay safe,

Answer 5

There are A LOT of very bad people on myspace. Be very, very careful. You could get hurt.

Answer 6

I'm sorry..I can't understand a word of what you are saying..but I get the impression you are playing around with something that you shouldn't.

Answer 7

Ditch him. He blocked you because he doesn't want to talk to you. Give up on him and move on. Don't wait around trying to talk to him, if he doesn't want to talk to you, there's nothing you can do. You can't force somebody to like you or talk to you.

Answer 8

For one, you're so called question is way too long. Second, there is no question in that big jumble of words. Third, who cares??!

Answer 9

Its good you were being careful he sounds like a dirty young boy.

Answer 10

You need to talk to your parents!