My ex and I have been apart for five monthes. However, the other day we slept together. I cannot avoid him as he has my son every afternoon and I have to go and pick my son up. My ex is always trying to grab me, kiss me and pull me close to him. What should I do? I know that we are toxic for one antoher but we were together for eleven years, he just seems to be the "right" fit for me in certain areas.
2006-10-14 13:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by Enigma1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What was the reason for your divorce? If you don't mind me asking? This could help.
2006-10-14 14:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Norah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you are experiencing a case of being in "familiar territory" even if it is toxic. You have a HABIT of being together and habits are very hard to break so both of you must be firm in your efforts to get on with your lives because right now it looks like you are going nowhere very fast.
2006-10-14 14:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want it, I don't see what the problem is. But yeah, there seems to be some vital information missing here. I mean, if you guys both still want each other, then why did you two get divorced? Offhand, it sounds like you didn't have a really good reason for leaving each other if you are still wanting each other.
2006-10-14 14:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl i soo know what u mean been there done that..i was with my ex 10yrs and we slept together a few times since then but yet to me that was it...he still had his issues..and well we knew that being together would not work..we slowly realized sex was all we had in common..
2006-10-14 14:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dannielle W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't mean you have to be together. If the sex is good then enjoy it. You already know that a relationship won't work with him so as long as having sex isn't complicating things too much and it doesn't prevent you from finding someone you can have a real relationship with it can't do too much damage.
2006-10-14 14:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While the sex may be good, it is good because it is familiar to you. he knows how to get to you that way. But remember why you two are no longer together and don't fall for the trap of sex. It can lead to more complications.
2006-10-14 14:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes poison is as sweet as honey isn't it? ...think about that. Try to find someone else with whom sex is good or hopefully great and you will forget about your toxic Ex. Dont screw your Ex no matter how good it seems...it is still poison.
2006-10-14 14:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your son what it's like to have two loser parents with no self confidence. Maybe then you'll get your answer.
2006-10-14 14:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is exalctley like an episode from gilmore girls like luke and lorali were getting married but she selpt with christopher her ex sort of husband they never got married but ex husband and know i think they might not get married .
2006-10-14 14:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by bloo b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why did you 2 break up?
2006-10-14 14:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋