How important do you feel it is to wait until you're married to have sex? If you meet someone and you love them, do you feel that it is ok to have sex with them? And if you know they love you, should you wait?
Is love the most important consideration in deciding whether or not to have sex?
And do you ever know if this person you love is "the one" you might end up marrying?
2006-10-14 13:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is no right or wrong answer for this...You can never know if he is the one....when it comes to sex only you can know if you are ready or not....but do not let anyone pressure you into it if this guy really loves you then he is going to respect you whether your ready or not
2006-10-14 13:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally the right thing to do is to wait, but I don't think anyone does anymore. Morally you should decide based on love. It's a personal decision that only you can answer. If you're having doubts, then wait. If you're just afraid because it will be your first time, then maybe you should wait until you're emotionally ready. Having sex for the first time should be a huge decision. It's a shame that it isn't anymore.
Yes, you know when the one you love is "the one." Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Other times it slowly dawns on you that you can't imagine not having this person in your life. Either way it happens, you know that you want to grow old with them.
Good luck with your decision!
2006-10-14 13:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not be saved for marriage. I really believe that people need to experience sex outside of marriage in order to gain experience and to understand sex and their bodies. That way, when you meet "the one," it's not all just about lust and sex. You will know "the one" when you meet him because he will be your best friend and will never let you down the way run-of-the-mill boyfriends do, time and again. Try not to stress about it; you'll know it's right when it's right. And be sure to have safe sex. Don't be sleeping with every man out there, but at the same time, don't be a virgin, either. Sex is something to be enjoyed while you are young. Saving it for marriage is an absurd and antequated notion.
2006-10-14 13:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know who is "the one" that is just a saying that was made up by jewelers and florists so they could sell more of their products to saps who believe anything they hear. If you are hell bent on loving someone before sex that's great it is a quality that is hard to find in a person anymore. Also if your body is hot enough guys will wait as long as it takes to get a piece, and will say what ever it takes to get it. Guys are excellent liars when sex is the goal. So just remember " I love you. " is not always I Love You!
2006-10-14 13:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have yet to meet someone who regretted waiting until they were married. However, I see example after example of how sex within an unmarried relationship causes people to lose perspective...stay in bad situtation, let their partner abuse and cheat on them....just because "I love him", which usually means "he knows how to do me".
2006-10-14 13:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people believe in waiting till their married to have sex. i say NO WAY test the waters first
2006-10-14 13:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at your own feelings if you love someone and you feel happy with having sex with him just do it but never do the sex with out love it is too awful
2006-10-14 13:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by LILI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are you? Now if some one is willing to **** you and say they oh so love you then if you're not ready they not if you are then do it but safely! Holla at a ***** www.lauqueaischau@yahoo.com
2006-10-14 13:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by LauQueaischau T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually your first doesn't end up being the one,once youv'e given in you cant take it back.for a guy being a girls first is very special.for a girl,you never forget your first no matter how bad or good
2006-10-14 14:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two important things in life MENTAL COMPATIBILITY AND SEXUAL depends on what you want...... SEX ....ONLY... ...OR ....HAPPINESS..
depends on what.u want.
decide your life yourself we all look at life in our own way
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2006-10-14 13:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋