I'm a 17 year old girl and a virgin because I know I'm not ready for sex. But for some reason I've been having sexual dreams lately. Why is this?
I don't think this is in the correct category, but I didn't know where to put it. Thanks for the answers!
2006-10-14 13:22:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
dreams are only dreams unless you put emphasis on them.
2006-10-14 13:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not necessarily mean that you are craving sex. It could point to a deeper feeling that makes you uncomfortable. You said yourself, "I know I'm not ready," and maybe this is the root of the problem. At your age I can understand that you are faced with sex and sexual situations every day. It's a new and slightly scary thing, and this is made worse by the fact that "everyone else is doing it." Follow your instincts and, if you're uncomfortable with the idea or you're feeling some kind of pressure, try to come to terms with this. Plus, sex could be a metaphor for something that you're curious about or would like to try. Are you bored with something in your life? Are you craving adventure?
2016-05-22 02:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, dreams are usually just randomly generated from subconscious bursts of thought, and having sexual dreams could be just random or could result from high arousal levels, and either way, your body may respond as if it were being physically stimlated (same as with a guy's "wet dreams," it will just be less wet...)
Secondly, stay a virgin 'til you're married, that's an awesome gift to share with your husband. Remember you don't need to have sex to fix sexual arousal, you can wait until you're married for sharing sex with someone else.
Third, I have to disagree somewhat with Amber above: yes finish high school, if college is the path you want to take, then go, and get married and have sex with your husband, but if that husband comes along and you know you want to be married, don't force the relationship to have to wait until after college. In many cases that will cause far worse stress in your life than remaining unmarried through college, could raise your risk of breaking your abstinance, and waiting until after you graduate college is an arbitrarily made, and not necessarily wise "rule".
Thank you, I've had my rant for the day,
God bless and farewell.
2006-10-14 17:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by samurai-wannabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dream is just a dream. I've dreamed of many things like sky diving. It doesn't mean I'm going to go out and do it. Be proud of being a virgin. It is very special and you need to be 100% sure with whom you are giving it up too. You want to look back when your older and have no regrets. I was not married but I married the man I gave my virginity too. Good luck.
2006-10-14 14:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by carmieaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know... I have a lot of sexual dreams... but I am not a virgin ... and I am almost 9 months pregnant too........ and for some reason its never my husband in my dreams... lol..
2006-10-14 13:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually sexual dreams usually have more pertinence to your personal sucess than sex!
2006-10-14 13:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good you are still a vigin and plan on staying that way for a while. finish high school, go to college, get married and THEN have sex with your husband.
2006-10-14 13:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~Amber~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ! a good girl wow , good for you!
2006-10-14 14:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by pahump1@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-14 13:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋