I like this guy and my friends are telling me you should tell him but I am afraid if I do he will not talk to me anymore or hate me
2006-10-14 13:11:03 · 14 answers · asked by Vie sanchez 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
well, what will happen if you don't tell him? he'll never know. go for it - maybe he likes you back.
2006-10-14 13:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by ndyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from extreme personal experience, TELL HIM. Would you rather go on always wondering what he would have done or would you rather know that he may only like you as a friend. I know that the idea of rejection is a huge confidence killer but it is totally worth the risk. Just make it casual and say something like, "I don't know how you feel about me but I like you as more than a friend." You will be glad that you did it in the end.
2006-10-14 20:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since he already talks to you thats a start in the right direction so keep talking to him if your not ready or confident enough yet to let him know be friends and let him get to know you and if he likes you he may tell you...you will get some signs when talking to him,you may already be giving him some signs when you like someone its hard not to give signs whether your trying or not.
2006-10-14 20:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what have you got to lose if you like someone you have a 50/50 chance of them reacting the way you want them to, and if you dont tell them then you wont ever find out if things will be the way you want but if he doesnt like you back then you didnt need him in the first place because sometimes men cant see what is right in front of them that is a good thing waiting to happen .....good luck...
2006-10-14 20:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always tell him. If you dont, how will you know what could have been? If he doesnt talk to you anymore or hates you afterwards, you were too good for him anyways.
2006-10-14 20:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by x3cassx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changeup your hair style for the day and wear a flower in your hair. Place it as a means to draw his attention. When he comments about it, you can tell him that you put on today for someone u are drawn to. His response will get your answer. At least you will know the stick or to find another pot of hunny.
2006-10-14 20:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by debbi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try flirting, smiling, lots of eye contact, touching to make your point, etc. If he's interested, he'll pick up on these signals and if he's not, he won't and you'll still be friends.
2006-10-14 20:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt a lot! He'll know. ANd if he flirts back, good. If not, then move on to someone else. Good luck.
2006-10-14 20:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him (or get one of your friends to) who he likes. If he says that he likes you, then you should say that you like him too. If you cant get him to tell you, then go to his closest friend and ask him.
2006-10-14 20:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Life is too short to live with regret.
2006-10-14 20:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Devin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋