Why do we idolize them in a perfect and glamourous mind set?
Is it because we were younger and more naive then and like the glory days? Is it because as a hopeless romantic, we prefer only to remember the good? What's up with that? Is an elixir of love gushing out from them to us as well and we are just recieving that and sensing it? It seems unnatural to think of someone from so long ago don't you think? What is your story? Can you relate? Tell us their initials (E.A.T.) as I will tell you mine.(Theirs) Maybe we will match or reconnect?
2006-10-14
13:01:27
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NIDO and MS SCARLET,
I feel you. Dreams surpase all space and time don't they! Love never fails... I am
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Happy for both of you!
Ms Scarlet- A miracle came your way and you let go of your ego and pride, faced rejection right in the eye and put your love out there unconditionally-Perfect, beautiful, priceless. God Bless you and the ones that you LOVE! :^) YEA!!!!!
2006-10-14
13:29:37 ·
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gaurdianna,
Look him up?-Thanks!
2006-10-14
13:30:19 ·
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Yes. Childhood friend since Kindergarten. Its no idolize. We today are still best friends. I have grown up with him and have gotten to know him personally. We are both currently in great realtionships of our own and we have not crossed that line yet. In my case, I disagree with your glory day theory. Its because I have quality time with mine and I know his heart as he knows mine.
2006-10-14 13:05:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I still love SWR and will love him until the day I die. He was the first man I ever truly and madly loved. Our breakup was painful and can still bring tears to my eyes now, ten years later. I still dream about him from time to time, and sometimes the dreams are so vivid that they seem real and I wake up crying. This may sound strange, but I am happily married now (yes, it's true) and I have told my husband how I feel about this. He actually understands and does not feel threatened by it because he knows SWR is in my past, and remains an important part of my past. There will always be a love in my heart and very fond memories of SWR.
I think some of the reasons you posed are indeed the reasons why love lingers on like this. I also believe that if you truly love someone, you will always love them even if you are mature or responsible enough to understand that the love could not work out for the long run.
I don't wish to reconnect with SWR, but I will always think about him and love him throughout my life because of the good times and love we once shared. Even though SWR doesn't know this, I wish him every happiness and hope he has moved on and found a wonderful spouse like I have. Loving someone means you want them to be happy, and I really want SWR to be happy in his life.
2006-10-14 13:16:35
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answered by nido_tr3s 5
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J.L.B. met him when I was 27 and he was 25. Dated for 3 years, love of my life. I did something stupid, we broke up, stayed apart for 15 years. He remarried and I remarried and we went our separate ways. Saw him in a store in 2001, we talked a little while right before we parted I hugged him and whispered in his ear "I still love you I always have." I left and didn't look back. He and his wife separated in 2003, divorced in Jan. 2004, he called me in Feb. 2004 said "I need to correct something I messed up a long time ago!" We had a date, the love was still there. We are together now and happy as we can be. It was worth the wait!!!!
2006-10-14 13:15:36
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answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6
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Definitely! From 26 years ago, and all your posits as to why are true. No, it's not unnatural. As much as I hate to reference Barbra Striesand, the song for her movie "The Way We Were" (1970), I believe, might provide the best answer I can give. God Bless you.
2006-10-14 13:12:20
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my parents were divorced many years and hadn't seen or spoken to each other either, then my father died at age 66. Neither one remarried although each had relationships now and then; when he died, a very close friend of his told us he had said that my mother and us were the only ones he had ever loved, and after the funeral my mother admitted--the only time she ever did --that she never loved anyone but him. But they just couldn't make their marriage work. It's sad.
2006-10-14 16:03:49
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answered by nowisthetime 2
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no one can explain the beauty of love..
u just have to learn how to live without them.. some people can never be forgotten.. no matter how hard we try..
its all about moving on.. and letting go..
2006-10-14 13:05:41
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answered by eki 2
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i still think a bout my first boyfriend! and i was 14 years old. and he was french. he was tall slim and handsome and not only this he was very sweet to me and when i called him he would come and he never stepped out of lime with me,
2006-10-14 13:12:22
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answered by gaurdianangelic 3
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yes I still love my first love
2006-10-15 11:12:10
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answered by acid tongue 7
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