No contact for a week now.. I've sent her serval messages saying "I'm Sorry" I was stressed because my father was in the Hospital. I try calling ideal times overthere but no answer.. Spoke to father once.. I assume her father isn't fond of me. I'm white.. I really love this women. She should be moving back within two weeks or prior to my bday 10/28. I assume she just slightly pissed at me.. She left a decent amount of belongings here.... HelpI usually don't get choked up like this I just was a dumb a%% for being slighty rude. I want ot marry this women... I know she loves 4 me?? I'm gentleman 95% of the time I treated her very good when she was here .Help stressed out guy
I also just sent her 12 pink and dark pink roses and a teddy bear... With the card just saying thinking of you and miss you
Love Cornelius
2006-10-14 12:24:07 · 9 answers · asked by Cornelius M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Different cultures treat rudeness in differnet ways and being stressed realy is no excuse. You will just have to wait and se. That is the price you pay for offending her. If she were white she may have sent you a ruder reply back, but she is holding her head high and teaching you a lesson. You have apologised-dont pester her though. If she loves you she will try to sort it out with you-if she doesnt then she will use this as an excuse to end it but either way you will soon find out.
2006-10-14 12:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.. 95% gentlemen that is a keeper. I would call later on or maybe tomorrow to talk to her. Maybe try to strike up a conversation with Dad on the phone, if he answers. Get some brownie points. Send her the roses was great! If you send again, send her red roses.. Red roses are for love. Can't remember what pink means. Yellow means honest. Sounds like you are good to her. When you call & if she is not there let her Dad know that your Father was in the hospital, so you're a little overwhelmed. We are all entitled to have bad days. If he sees that you truely love his daughter & treat her well.. he will accept you.
2006-10-14 12:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so frakked.
Assume she is very pissed at you and never coming back.
Very, very bad ettiquette.
Get some counseling so you can take that 95 percent to 100 percent.
No one is perfect, but somethings you should NEVER do. Hitting a woman is one of those things (I know you didn't hit this woman). Being rude to her is another.
Wait and see what she chooses, and know that you are very close to losing her.
If she comes back, make sure you've been to counseling and worked on a lot of your issues if you want to keep her.
2006-10-14 12:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Japanese sometimes feel like they have to save face, so she might be thinking that her honor will not permit her to forgive you.. I don't know the details of what happened though, so that's just a wild guess..
anyway, good luck! you sound like a decent enough person.. everyone makes mistakes.. hopefully she'll forgive you!
2006-10-14 12:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. when she comes back tell her that your sorry again. i hope that it all works out, u sound like a really nice person
2006-10-14 12:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by dancing_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably letting you sweet it out . I don't agree with that but that's more than likely it .
2006-10-14 12:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and respect her wishes when she contacts you.
2006-10-14 12:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have any choice except to
carry on trying to win her heart
it's way too soon to give up.
2006-10-14 12:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with patient ,she will contact you.
2006-10-14 12:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋