I met this guy out in public (of course) and it was like love at first site! We're meeting at second cup tomorrow..................and i want to tell him ilove him.............how do i do it?
2006-10-14 12:21:35 · 19 answers · asked by Phoebe Strike 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
You might consider waiting to tell him. Telling a guy that you love him after only meeting twice might scare him off. If you truly love him and want to be with him, get to know him better and then you can say *with confidence* "I love you."
2006-10-14 12:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by ampotratz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes from knowing a person inside and out and accepting all the faults and flaws that comes with that person. How can you know a person that well from just one glance or even one meeting? Remember, never judge a book by its cover. People are like onions, with many layers. Peel away at each layer to see what is underneath. And when you finally peel away at the last layer, then you will know if you are in love. Until then, don't throw the word around so foolishly.
2006-10-14 12:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by This Is Not Honor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be that way, after meeting my now partner only once something told me we were meant to be together, then we spent more time together and we both felt the same way (at least i thought) we started telling each other we loved each other after only seeing each other a couple of times and he was the one who told me first.
We have been together about 4 months and it seems he wasnt the person i "fell in love" with at the beginning, he has been lying to me about everything and has put my heart through hell, we are at the moment trying to sort things out but he has done to much to hurt me and i dont think things can ever be the same again.
He was hiding from me the fact that he had 2 kids and was living with his supposedly ex girlfriend.
Sometimes its true u can fall in love with someone quickly but please be careful because not everyone is genuine, if you feel you need to tell him then go for it if he does a runner then you two were never meant to be.
Goodluck
2006-10-14 16:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by brokensoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, take it slow...Get to know him better before saying this to him. You may feel it now, but suppose you rush things with your declaration of love and then you find out that he is a total loser! It takes time to really know if you love someone, and if you say the "L" word too soon, it may scare him away. Oh I believe in "love at first sight" but I don't believe in showing everyone at the table the cards you may be holding in your hand when so much could be at stake! Take your time, get to know him...be yourself and hope that he is himself so that the love you feel can either grow or go.
Good luck, but keep those special words to yourself, else if he is no good he may use those words to hurt you...You need to guard your heart!
2006-10-14 12:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie_msw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if I was the guy. First thing in my mind after you say that is "PSYCHO *****!"
Play it cool, play it safe, and say it later on even though that's how you feel. You don't know if saying it so soon might scare him off and it sounds like the last thing you want to do is scare him off.
2006-10-14 12:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be flirty with him! some suggestions: give him some time. go out a couple of times with him. maybe let him get to know you a little better. And the last thing thats on my head is to play with him and go to a private place (with no people) and kiss him and maybe he will get your point that you love him!!!
2006-10-14 14:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward.
2006-10-14 12:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, considering you can't spell "awkward", I wouldn't trust your first instincts and I'd say give him a couple of dates.
2006-10-14 12:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean awkward geese use spell check
2006-10-14 12:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you like him and you feel so close to him and that you love him and then give him a hug
2006-10-14 12:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by ayrionna b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋