how far is considered too far, for someone you dont intend to have sex with, details details details please.
2006-10-14 12:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Too far is when you clearly and succinctly say "NO!" or "STOP!" or "I DON'T WANT TO!" and they continue their advances or activities as if you hadn't spoken. That is too far.
2006-10-14 12:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything beyond just a simple (no tongues!) kiss is too far. Even if you're not thinking about having sex, things can happen quickly. It doesn't take long to forget your boundaries when you're caught up in a really good moment. Also, make sure you're not alone w/ someone. I have a 21 month old daughter that proves that things can get out of hand in a heartbeat- and that your parents know what they're talking about when they tell you not to let yourself be alone w/ your boyfriend.
2006-10-14 12:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything beyond kissing is too far if you don't intend to have sex. Any touching is out of the question!
2006-10-14 12:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you're comfortable with. A lot of girls don't want to have sex because they want to save it for marriage or because they don't want the risk of getting pregnant...not because they see it as morrally wrong. In that case they may choose to give their bf's handjobs or bIowjobs to satisfy the guy, without actually having sex. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-14 12:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I like at it why do anything if you dont plan on going all the way. You are just working the other person up for something thats not going to happen why all the drama!
2006-10-14 12:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you aren't going to have sex with someone you should let the person know. Then if you do heavy petting he or she knows you are not going to have sex with him or her.
If you say that you don't want to have sex with a person, he doesn't have a right to force himself on you even if you were naked. Otherwise it is considered rape.
2006-10-14 12:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does depend on the individual. for me if i wasnt planning on having sex with the guy any time soon, i would say passionately kissing would be the farthest i would go. hopefully that wouldnt arouse me enough to have sex lol. hope this helps! :D
2006-10-14 12:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything beyond hugging and light kissing is what I would think would be the limit.
2006-10-14 23:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get a girl pregnant,then thats too far.
2006-10-14 16:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the individual
2006-10-14 12:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋