I love the fact that he tells me he loves me all the time, but somethims i feel like, i can't even explain it, maybe i have not had time to fall inlove with him yet, and maybe i feel presured to fall inlove with him, i dont know. please tell me what u think.
2006-10-14 11:59:21 · 20 answers · asked by ducky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know exactly what you mean, it's just that he really really likes you alot and just doesn't know how to show it any other way, he thinks he has found the perfect one. Some people are really into the mushy mushy kinda love so, i suggest if the feelings'mutual, just give in... don't hurt his feelings!!!
2006-10-14 12:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Pixel1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does '' just started '' mean ? Days ? Weeks ? How old are you guys ? I need to know. You sound young though so I will assume that to be true. Speaking as a guy who's been there. I WANTED to be in love. I really didn't know what love was, but it sounded cool. Maybe it was fear that if I didn't make it work fast then it might end fast. I was the same way; calling often and saying things that I didn't really know. Maybe I was trying to convince myself. Anyway, he might BE like I WAS ? Don't' lose him over this. Even if it's destined to be, you will fall in love at different times.
2006-10-14 19:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he has commitment issues and gets attached very easily. Some people who have had problems in the past with affection, either from past relationships or growing up do have these issues and think that every time they are in a relationship it is THE ONE and that they are in love right away just because the other person is interested in them, and they have never known that feeling.
2006-10-14 19:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by crazzyloo2chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might have some codependency issues, and might be looking to you to fill what is incomplete in him.
i would set limits on things right from the start and let him know that you arent the type to fallin love over night. it isnt appropriate to be calling so frequently or saying I love you so often.
I dated someone like this and he got mad when I wouldnt say it back to him as often. There are people that overuse the "i love you" because they want you to say it back to them so badly.
Set the record straight and if he ends it, he wasnt worth it in the first place.
Be honest and you cant go wrong.
2006-10-14 19:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by maggiemae821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have been going out, have you said it back? if you haven't been going out long then it maybe that he is an easy faller, maybe you are cursed with the luck of having any guy you date fall fast for you. lol my sister had that problem. if you have been together for a while then maybe his feelings are getting stronger. one thing to remember is put yourself first at this stage in a relationship. if you don't feel comfortable saying it back then don't other wise you will just dig a deeper hole. call him on it if it makes you uncomfortable.
2006-10-14 19:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jana M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal when i started a relationship my feelings where stronger in the beginning but if your not feeling the same i would let him know he needs to slow down a little bit dont just tell him you love him if its not coming from the heart if the shoe was on the other foot you wouldnt want him to tell you if he didnt mean it :)
2006-10-14 19:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by who w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wouldnt be all gaga all the time if he felt more secure about your feelings. Just tell him, hey, I like you too just pull back on the reins a bit and give me a chance to absorb your energy! :)
2006-10-14 19:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this on opray winfrey. They go through 3 stages.
The first one is attraction and they want you bad.
then they go through this
He is just in stage one.
2006-10-14 19:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sickness of too much happiness. Don't worry you see after one month how many times he tell you the words.
2006-10-14 19:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that you appreciate him and respect his feelings but that its going a little too fast for you. tell him you like him a lot but you're not quite ready for something super serious. that you'd prefer to take it a little slower.
2006-10-14 19:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by beesandhoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋