ok, so my last bf before he broke up with me he must have told me he loved me about a million times, but when we broke up all i can think of is the fact that he broke a promise, and now i still feel like he broke a promise, im over him and all, but why cant i get over what he did, i mean i seriously thought we would be together for a long time... when we see each other now (which is very rare) we talk 2 each other normally and all but i still feel sorta angry at him, like i can never trust him again, even as just a friend, i feel like he was just telling me he loves me so he can sleep with me..even though he never did, but i almost did once though (caught in the moment and all)... but he did so much for me, he changed his classes so he can be with me in class and bought me really expensive jewlery and took me out and all that, you know...but still i dont know.... so what does this mean, the fact that i'm angry at him and all..
P.S: i'm 15 (if it makes a difference anyway)
2006-10-14 11:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might be fine with him now and angry deep down by his actions because you've accepted the "new" him already. But whenever you see him, the "old" him that lied comes to mind and a side of anger takes over. It also might be the fact someone else in your life has lied to you and had left a huge impact. So whenever someone lies to you, whoever that person may be, you just get very angry,
2006-10-14 12:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by city.of.color 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question.he wanted to sleep with you and since you didnt i guess he felt like it was time to move on.men have a way of tellin you what you want to hear to get in your pants.dont fall for that.if your still a virgin consider the fact that you should be giving your virginity to a guy that loves you and shows it rather then pretends to.trust me you'll know the difference when it happens..
2006-10-14 18:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by angelbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone tells you they love you THAT's a promise... Give yourself some time to get over it.
Go out and enjoy yourself... get your mind off it.
2006-10-16 15:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by The_Chocolate_Moose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY !!!! Just STOP !!!! You are driving yourself crazy!
Most people are just a little bit nuts, & change their minds over and over again. You will never be able to make sense out of crazy, senseless actions. If you ever remember only one thing for the rest of your life---stop trying to make sense out of everything---ALL MEN ARE BOYS, & ALL BOYS ARE DUMB!
*************** J U S T S T O P ! ! ! ! ! ! *************
2006-10-14 18:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, don't let things like expensive gifts cloud your judgement.
2006-10-14 18:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by confused lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a serious relationship for you and these feelings will soon go away!!!
2006-10-14 18:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋