ok for example, you and a girl just recently started talking and you are physically attracted to eachother and would like to get to know her better and find out what kind of girl she is on the inside before starting a relationship with her. well the problem is, you think that she only likes you for your money but you don't know for sure whether she does or not. now the question is, how would you guys handle this if you were in this situation? please i need real advice and your honest opinion because i want him to trust me and that i am really not the kind of girl he thinks i am
2006-10-14 11:40:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be who you are in the end that is all that matters. If you are truly genuine it is going to show. If you're not that will show as well.
2006-10-14 11:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by boilerman426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can sniff out a gold digger. It's just how much he is willing to put up with. I was married 5 years to a money lover. We loved each other too, but her excessive spending brought about our divorce. If you already have slept with this guy before ya'll really knew each other, it's gonna be a hard road to a trusting relationship. Don't insist on doing a lot of things like movies 3 times a week or a date at Red Lobster (or the like) all the time. A VCR, popcorn, and a big couch goes a long way.
2006-10-14 11:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm fairly sure she wouldn't be into me for the money, cuz I don't have much, there is more to life than just money, and I can promise the things money can't buy. so I guess I would have to find out what kind of person she is on the inside
2006-10-14 11:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by buckhalter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good one. Men tend to think that way because experience has taught us to do so. Only time and your own finantial efforts will cure it. If you have no finantial achievements and have a lax attitude toward life, chances are that his view has been confirmed. He also believes that if he marries you that you will cheat on him sooner or later and then try to divorce him in order to sleep with someone else and take half of his money. I highly advice that if you truly consider dating a man with money that you bring your own to the table. More and more men are refusing to date women who have no finantial subsance.
That, my dear, is the short and long of it.
Mr. M on "confused."
2006-10-14 11:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try getting to know each other better. I think you answered your own question when you started asking. Once you know each other better, you'll either learn that the other person IS dating you because of the money, or they're NOT.
2006-10-14 11:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had money before, so I know 5 wrong ways to do it?
Now
If she is not in my group of friends (which are mostly women, now younger than me) then she doesn't have a chance to become a bonding pair person with me!!!!
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there are the golddigger that have tried and I could not see them at the time but my friends could! wasn't long untile she left...
after that I could see her for what she really is...
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got it figured out now, what you need to do?
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2006-10-14 11:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't MAKE him trust you. By the very act of trying to find a way to MAKE him trust you, shows that you are NOT trustworthy. You are instead being manipulative & controling. Look into yourself to find what you are seeking.
2006-10-14 11:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her and her mom are obiviously poor human beings. stay faraway from them. How can any buddy comic tale round like that. Her mom might want to no longer blame you for something you probably did not do. I advise you in basic terms enable her flow. do not communicate over consisting of her. do not get entangled consisting of her anymore. She stole your boyfriend?! It looks like you do not suck as a perfect buddy. You sound very impressive.
2016-12-04 20:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by friedman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and honest and if the money gets in the way move on money can not buy happiness.
2006-10-14 11:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always offer to pay your share of the date or try to keep it equal....if he pays once then you should pay....Now if this guy is a gentleman he should always pay for the date especially if he asked you out... Try dates that don't cost alot or any money go for a walk,hike, go for a coffee and chat....show him that you don't need the expensive dinners and shows
2006-10-14 11:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by lscudds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋