I cannot figure this out. If a woman has problems with her bra she fixes it beacause it is not comfortable, but when a man is sitting on his junk or it is bent in an awkward position that cause discomfort we get scorned for fixing the problem.
If this is a problem for you could you please tell us guy how to do this without having to quit what we are doing to do it. Understand this pain can literally make it so you can not breath just like being kicked in the groin.
2006-10-14 11:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think it is the female conditioning. If we were to adjust our labia (perhaps hung on the side of our panties) in front of an onlooker, it would not be well-received. ( I hope not!) Anyway, boobs aren't in the same classification as a penis. There is no urine or ejaculatory fluid that comes from them, but the nourishing milk that feeds a baby, which is less intimidating, I guess. But really, I see your point! I know it is painful for a man to have this situation and it overrides any social notions. I think if a woman sees it, she has to show her distaste for fear of being a pervert or someone who might be interested. It is the cat-like traits of a woman, this need to preserve her feminine mystique that forces her to react in such a manner. All those years of Mommy saying "Don't do that, that's unladylike" or "not in public, that's ugly." It is just engraved in us. But, I am sorry that you suffer this ostracizing reaction, but your genitals don't have feelings so tug away.
Next time I see a man doing it, I will remember to walk up to him and say...."Feels a whole lot better, huh, Dude."
2006-10-14 11:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by katesfive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having been raised by steel hand of a southern lady , I was
taught at an early age that this was not proper conduct for a
gentleman while in public. There are times however , when
you must "root , hog or die" to use the antiquated colloquialism and it is not possible to excuse yourself from a lady's viual range.
Try not to make too big a production of it , and perhaps you will
escape with no more than a dirty look.
A simple solution would be to change your undergarments to
Boxer type briefs. If this does not give you the relief you seek ,
you may try going "sans apperiel" to use the French term.
Nowadays this is commonly known as "freeballing".
If this problem is persistent there are strategies including powders and creams that can be applied to the offending area.
Should your problem become chronic , Please seek the advise
of your physician immediately.
2006-10-14 20:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Farnham the Freeholder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baseball players do it all the time during games. I've heard some women complain and krinkle their upper lip, some women smile and snicker, and some don't have any reaction at all. It all depends on the individual.
You're right though, I don't think there's many men at all who would have an adverse reaction to a woman adjusting a bra strap
2006-10-14 12:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it actually doesn't bother me at all when my boyfriend does it. If I was chilling with a guy friend and he did it I would feel a little uncomfortable I guess, but only for like a second. I understand though that its uncomfortable and id get over it quickly after the initial surprise
2006-10-14 12:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by SweetLaura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sexy to me when a man adjusts himself,because it shows he is confident enough to bring attention to his most private area. Confidence is always sexy. However, most women would not pull their panties out of their crack or adjust their bra strap in public. Women might not think this is so much gross as it is just bad manners.
2006-10-14 11:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's gross - makes perfect sense to me. Better instruct your scornful lady friends.
At the same time, I'd like to pass out jock itch cream to a few guys because their scratching really does drive me crazy! I know it's uncomfortable but there is help out there...
2006-10-14 11:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by turkkizi34 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We oftentimes regulate the bra (and strings! and pantyhose! ) whilst no guy sees it. specific, i detect it gross whilst men regulate themseves in public. he's touching his penis, and the subsequent minute he will strengthen his hand for a handshake, or attain right into a cookie jar. i understand that is all in my ideas, yet nevertheless - gross. i think of that is historic, too, what runs aing our brains: if a woman adjusts her outfits in public - it quite is low fee. that's what prostitutes did interior the previous days to charm to suctomers - pretend to regulate the stockin. If a guy adjusts himself in public - it quite is just about an indication of sexual agression. in case you need to regulate it, ought to you utilize the bathing room of a minimum of turm removed from the ladies so as that they do no longer see you?
2016-10-19 09:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is fixing her bra, it doesn't look like she's playing with herself. And women tend to be more discreet. Try going to the bathroom, or to a less noticeable place if you've got someone who doesn't like it around.
2006-10-14 11:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Min02 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because you are grabbing your sexual organ, and not washing your hands afterwards. Even though it's not direct contact, your sweaty balls could have dampened the area. It just looks tacky, and reminds people of you jerking it, maybe? The crotch is totally different than a bra strap.
2006-10-14 11:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I dont see anything wrong with adjusting your junk. I think its sexy
2006-10-14 11:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by karenluvskris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋