My mom got married 4 months ago. I really like my new step-dad, he makes me laugh a lot and I love him, but we fight about something almost every day! What should I do to stop the fights?
2006-10-14 11:24:11 · 13 answers · asked by Thing H. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm thirteen.
2006-10-14 11:34:44 · update #1
At least its good to hear that you love him and you two have good times together. Maybe you should try and talk to him and not argue over things. Maybe hes trying to disipline you and you dont agree with it. If you love him then give him a chance,,,and conect with him on a stronger level. Give him and show him respect and im sure he will do the same for you. Good luck hon.
2006-10-14 11:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence isn't the respond. there became no appropriate or incorrect occasion. i'm 19 and could by no ability enhance my hand to a determine notwithstanding if it have been a step determine. whilst a toddler does this it ability a collection admire undertaking. Your son rather needs to regulate himself and be the bigger person. confident, his step father yelled at him which isn't a sturdy undertaking whilst a determine gets right into a toddler's face like that. My father became a fighter pilot and he became rather strict yet he by no ability have been given in my face yelling, he became a loving determine that would floor us for doing errors yet by no ability yell in our face and get that aggressive. Your husband desires greater self administration he's an person and might act like one. Your son needs to objective to make the courting artwork between him and his step dad. analyzing the further info i could say that your son became interior the right. He purely could of walked faraway from the situation even with the incontrovertible fact that because of the fact i'm advantageous that the rush he gave him escalated the war of words.
2016-10-02 07:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by bradberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you have to do, some times you have to give more, just to keep the peace, and I am sure sometimes all of the fuss is just not worth it, My Idea is to sit down with your step-dad, and say, lets try and work on getting on better, so we can have a peaceful home, that way we can all be happy!
2006-10-14 11:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Identify the root cause of the fights? Are you being a ****? Does he have a temper problem? Get down to it. Talk it out. He coudl just be venting on you and something else is upsetting him.
2006-10-14 11:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are still in the adjustment stage of your relationship. you have your mother in common. So you have to ask yourselves what spawns these arguments? Are they over something of no value and no sugnificance. If you love your step father and he loves you and you two are willing to make the best of the relationship, find an outlet of positivity that will bring you two closer
2006-10-14 11:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by wisedome30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love hem really you well know how to stop fighting with hem easy just think about last thingies you was fighting for
2006-10-14 11:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by waled almaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and talk things out it hard on the guy because he trying to do every thing possible to fit into your family. And also trying so hard to earn your love and trust. just follow your heart you will find your answer on how you and your stepdad can build an strong relationship.
2006-10-14 11:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by sweet lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to agree with Wisedome 3!
2006-10-14 11:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bo V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are old enough to drink buy him something and drink it with him and reminisce and laugh about the both of your ignorances towards each other
2006-10-14 11:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to argue.
2006-10-14 11:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋