My guy friend asked me a question because we can ask each other anything. Basically he has just gotten up with this girl. How should he go about telling her that she doesn't excatlly smell fresh down there? He really doesn't want to hurt her but he wants her to know....whats a good way to go about it? Please be nice he is a great guy....
2006-10-14 11:15:39 · 8 answers · asked by b_fab115 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
On a serious note, if he enjoys performing oral sex on her, they should play in the shower a game called "You wash mine and I'll wash yours." Of course you'll be washing each other's body parts. He also should just be straight up with her, but sensitive still. Tell him to recommend Summer's Eve feminine wash. They have this new fragrance called Spring Blossom. I think she'll be more appreciative if he were straight up honest with her, but reassure her that everything is still cool between them.
2006-10-14 11:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She has to be told. Soap & water for starters. I think feminine hygiene is a learned trait..we might think we smell fresh but we're not the one smelling...You might want to relate something to that effect in the first person..Ya know like " Gosh I was so embarrassed..my guy said I wasn't fresh...so I get in the tub often and swish water..or something to that effect. Find a nice way to give her the information so she won't feel like less.....There's always feminine spray but ya gotta be clean first..AND..she has the say so when a guy can get close..so make sure it's squeaky clean before he does...I was a newly wed, way back when, and I was told I wasn't fresh I was crushed and from then on..if there was any chance that a nose would get near it you can bet I was freshly bathed and powered...We only have to be told once. I also use Cottonelle wipes (or any flushable wet wipes) during the day for added freshness. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-10-14 11:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by redqueentx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest taking a shower together before having sex and let her know that he really likes to feel clean for her also . Find out if she shaves her private area and maybe suggest to her that he thinks it is a turn on for him if she did. If that doesn't work he will just have to be blunt about it and tell her the truth
2006-10-14 11:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him to ask her if she douches , and if she gets pissed tell him to dump her because if he keeps sexing her down he'll start to get that smell of better yet get a yeasty infection in his throat. then no chic will want to ride him or kiss him.. which is better being rude to her about her nasty kitty cat or him caring about his penis and his ability to reproduce kids later. so if hes more worried about her feeling instead of his health he not to smart of a person. First of all she has to smell it because once sex is over that funk is in the air and she has to be in denial about her self and her smell there could really be something wrong with her vagina and if shes never been checked out then shes already either infertile and may have some lingering ST D's. why else is she funky in there . like i said he need to retreat from having sex with Miss Smelly Cat.
2006-10-14 11:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is a fool if he thinks she dosnt know. Other wise he must let her lick his fingers or mouth afterwards. Maybe then she will get the idea. Otherwise he should suggest a shower befor love making. EVERY TIME!!!! Maybe then she will get the hint.
2006-10-14 11:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to go to the pool, it might fix it for a while. Don't know if shaving would also help it
2006-10-14 11:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, that really stinks. Maybe he should make bathing a part of foreplay.
2006-10-14 11:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by happydawg 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there really isn't any way....suggest foreplay in the shower....
2006-10-14 11:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋