how do i get real friends? like a big group of fun, funny, and cool friends? i am usually always myself, and i do have a lot of friends now, but things have changed. this year, people who were my friends last year, don't really say hi anymore. i had quite a few guy friends last year, but this year, not so many. they seem to kind of not notice me as much. honestly, i don't know how that happened. same goes for the girl friends too.
HOW DO I BECOME NOTICED MORE? WITH ALL OF THE POPULAR PEOPLE AND MY FRIENDS FROM LAST YEAR?
AND PLEASE DON'T GIVE SOME CHEESY ANSWER SAYING THAT BEING POPULAR ISN'T EVERYTHING. JUST EXPLAIN HOW TO BECOME MORE NOTICED W/ THE GROUP OF POPULARS.
2006-10-14 11:14:36 · 9 answers · asked by DUUUUHHH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH YA, I AM ON THE SONG TEAM. IT IS CHEER AND DANCE COMBINED. WE PERFORM WITH THE CHEERLEADERS AT FOOTBALL GAMES.
2006-10-14 11:29:41 · update #1
Just be king to everyone you meet. Say hello with a smile on your face. If you see someone in difficulty, help them. Make yourself available to help anybody with anything. Never say anything bad about anubody, and don't pass on rumours.
2006-10-14 11:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 14 and i'm popular at my school. I talk to most people and ignore those weird nerdy dorks. We sometimes even laugh at them. We all dress with popular brands such as hollister and abercrombie. We aren't afraid to say whatever we have to and we don't keep secrets. We are very preppy and laugh alot. we make mean jokes about whatever we want to.Hope that HELPS :D Are you a guy? Cause if you are u might wanan quit the song team or w/e lol. If ur a girl then how about u take it to the next level and become a chearleader???? Well many people that went to school quite soem time ago will tewll u to eb nice to everyone, etc. If you do this i can almost 100% guarantee that u will NOT be popular. People will laugh at you and call u a little teachers pe goodygoody. Then, it'll just b harder to become popular. especially when you get older and more into school is when you stop making friends because everyone already has their social group. IF you help the nerdy people then you will stay in their group and itll b really hard to leave. When you talk to one person that belomngs to oen social group the other groups kinda ignore you or get away.
2006-10-14 11:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by ron92192 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out what you are good at and what you like and then join up with people who have those interests. Then just be yourself. Don't try so hard to be popular. Sometimes that ruins everything. Sometimes it makes you look needy or pushy.
One of the best things you can do is try to look for other people who need help and be friends with them. Maybe that person is just wanting to be popular too. Start your own group. But be nice to everyone.
Sometimes the popular people turn out to be the ones you wish you'd never been interested in. I've found that to be true. The kids who were most popular in elementary school turned out to be duds in Jr. High. ANd the kids who were most popular in Jr. High were the druggies of High school. Many of the most popular kids in High school fell in love and got married and didn't do much else with their lives.
So, do a little service for others. Develop a talent. You'll become an interesting person and everyone will want to join up with YOU!
2006-10-14 11:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by brer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try finding out what kind of events, school activites, after school activities they are involved in and try to do those same things. Talk to them, be more confident. You're probably a great person. If they don't respond in a positive way then they aren't mature people and a smart person like yourself wouldn't wanna be around small minded people. You could also try to make new friends outside that group of people all together. Maybe having a group of friends all your own will fill that emptiness or void that you're feeling.
good luck!
2006-10-14 11:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be notice just be your self don't try to be someone your not that will just make people think bad about you.Me i have a lot of friends because i talk to everybody I treat everyone nice and they like me because of my personalty. the only time i act like a *** is when people that are mad because i have a lot of friends try to make me feel bad and that's never going to happen. and i like to express my self I'm not a shy person if there's some thing going on at school i go a participate.well i hope you use my info and good luck getting popular
2006-10-14 11:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something really well. For example, you can become really good at sports. Join a team. Athletes almost always get a lot of clout. And by joining a team, you've already gained a few friends in your team.
2006-10-14 11:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jst dress like them and pick up there lingo and mabe throw a huge party and invite them~
2006-10-14 11:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by jesslovesblink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more involved in school. try talking to people you wouldn't normally see yourself talking to or hanging out with.
2006-10-14 11:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by yomama h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more like them,and i mean talk like them,dress like them,listen to the music they are listening,and do the stuff they do!If not,find another friends that are more like you!
2006-10-14 11:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by oneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋